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Do I tell her to break it off with her boyfriend?

Plec07

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Alrite heres the deal, for just under a month now I've noticed this girl showing me some interest and I've just been playing it cool, not really paying too much attention to it because she has a boyfriends. Now over the past week her intrest level has increased a lot to the point where tonight she asked me to walk her to a friends to give some books that she borrowed back (she only lives about a minute walk away from me).

I went along as I needed a bit of exersize and it could be fun, when I saw her she was coming back from dropping them off and she walked up and gave me a hug. We then walked around for a bit and after I threw in some C+F and kino she was responding exactly as if she was my girlfriend (no kissing though). We were laughing, attempting to balance on a road sign with her on my lap then falling off and laying on the grass lookin at the stars. Generally having a good time and it just felt right.

I know she's being having problems with her boyfriend ignoring her as she's told her friends who have let it float around the school and I know I spend more time with her inside and outside of school than any other guys, yet alone her boyfriend. Question is do I tell her to break it up with him, wait around for it to happen, or just plain next her?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Neither.

You can't tell a girl to breakup with her boyfriend, especially when you haven't even hooked up with her yet. It's just not going to work.

If you wait around for something to happen, it never will! She's going to feel too guilty to make the move when she has a boyfriend.

Answer? You have to make the move. If you truly feel she attracted to you, then you need to make the move. She'll murmur "but I have a boyfriend" and try to make herself feel better. But at this point, you can't stop. This is where the men are set apart from the boys. You have to show her that you are man enough to make the move. If she says no 3 times, then give it a break. You must go into the situation knowing she is going to say it at least once though, for the sake of making herself feel better.

Make the move.
 

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Alright, sounds good. Just one thing, do I say anything back when she murmers "but I have a boyfriend" or just continue to make the move?
 

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man, I wouldn't try to hint anything about her bf.. i know im a noob but this is how i think it works: like in battle rapping its about how bad your enemy is, but with this its like how much you like her. dont be too strong, try to be cool with it and act like her bf doesn't bother you. if you start to talk about her bf she might get defensive because she probably loved him at some point..

idk if this will help, but just flow on with that move.
 
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