"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do I tell broads I'm an Accounting major?

PackDaddy

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Hey guys, this is something I have tried to stay away from when talking to girls in the past. If they ask, I'll tell them. But I don't continue to talk about me being an Accounting & Finance DBL major. To me this has dork written all over it. In fact, I'm not anywhere near the stereotypical accountant.

I've actually joked around about this before and gotten laughs. I think making a joke about it is the best approach.

How would you guys handle this though?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SteR

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Personally I've always found it weird that people stress about their course/profession. Who cares what women think? As long as you're happy/making the kind of money that you want, then that's all that should matter..
 

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SteR said:
Personally I've always found it weird that people stress about their course/profession. Who cares what women think? As long as you're happy/making the kind of money that you want, then that's all that should matter..
Exactly.
 

Harry Wilmington

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Nobody cares. I tell girls all the time I was a fine and performing arts major. If I looked at it the way you're looking at your job, I could be scared they thought it meant I was an out-of-work actor. Women ultimately care about (a) how you treat them, (b) how you look, and (c) if you can take care of them. If your "dorky" major/job still allows you to take her out, it shouldn't matter; and, if it DOES matter to them what you do, you shouldn't be dating them in the first place.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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Being shy or embarrassed about what you do is the pinnacle of AFC. It is more AFC than gushing to your oneitis about how much you love her.

If you're not proud of what you do, you're not proud of who you are. That will manifest itself into EVERY aspect of your life.

Instead of wondering what's the best way to avoid the discussion of your career, work on being proud of yourself and being comfortable in your own skin.

Men and women are very different in this way. Psychologically, men define themselves in a way after the type of work they are in. If you're not proud of what you're doing, you're probably not very proud of yourself either....and that's not good for your self-esteem. Women on the other hand generally couldn't care less. That's why you see some jobless or cash register divas who think they're hot sh1t.
 

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The same women you are worried will think you are a dork because of your job are out here fukkin bad boys with no future. You should be proud that are you in college and are working towards a successful career.
 
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