do i stop pursuing?

[mgh143]

so i asked this chick from my work if she wanted to go to dinner fri. and she said she was having dinner plans with a friend;

i said some other time and she said she didn't really know, we work together and all that

we have an ass load in common and she has been really flirty lately, i know most of you would say to hell with her; but what should I do?

I already know I can't let this bring down my confidence around her as this has happened in the past before at another work incident. What should I do/say/act around her to put me in best light possible and almost say "look I'm the prize, that is your bad".... well you know what i'm trying to say.

Please respond

 

[Reagan]

Just act like you're with it. That's the attractive characteristic right. A confident, happy person with their life together. And forget about her. I'm just like her. No relationships with people I work with.

 

[flexion_]

If she doesn't counter offer then she isn't interested. She didn't - she isn't interested.

She may be flirtly because it helps her make the day less boring at work. Its not wise to go down this path with someone you work closely with at work.