"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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so i asked this chick from my work if she wanted to go to dinner fri. and she said she was having dinner plans with a friend;

i said some other time and she said she didn't really know, we work together and all that

we have an ass load in common and she has been really flirty lately, i know most of you would say to hell with her; but what should I do?

I already know I can't let this bring down my confidence around her as this has happened in the past before at another work incident. What should I do/say/act around her to put me in best light possible and almost say "look I'm the prize, that is your bad".... well you know what i'm trying to say.

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just act like you're with it. That's the attractive characteristic right. A confident, happy person with their life together. And forget about her. I'm just like her. No relationships with people I work with.
 
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If she doesn't counter offer then she isn't interested. She didn't - she isn't interested.

She may be flirtly because it helps her make the day less boring at work. Its not wise to go down this path with someone you work closely with at work.
 
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