"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hey guys.... Well I posted earlier about this girl.....http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=73208.......Yeah well we went to Prom. Well I pick her up and we went out to eat, everything was good and we drove to the dance. She was already giving me positive signals. This was our second date by the way and I still hadnt done anything. We get to the dance and Im not a very good dancer so shes teaching me. She starts to rub against my *you know what* and you know the rest...... So I had to stop. We leave the dance early with my group to go catch a movie. We get caught in a R rated movie so we have to go see this boring ass movie. She is rubbing my leg with her feet but I still dont make a move. We leave the movie and go back to my place. So we talk for awhile and I have to take her home. So Im at her house, and I walk her to her to her doorstep and we're hugging.......we let go and we just keep eye contact for like 2 seconds. I wanted to kis her, I know she wanted to kiss me but I couldnt do it. LIke I said this is the second date, she is atleast a HB7-8, and im afraid shes gonna move on. If I do get one more chance I will initiate. What do you guys think? What did I do wrong and what are my chances? Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've been in a situation in which I should have kissed, but I didn't do it and I've regretted it everyday now. I know you have heard this before, but its not the things you do you regret as much as the things you don't do.
 

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Originally posted by Maeisgood
I've been in a situation in which I should have kissed, but I didn't do it and I've regretted it everyday now. I know you have heard this before, but its not the things you do you regret as much as the things you don't do.
I regret the stuff I do everyday, but honestly I think I have a problem because anytime I want to do something I do it, no matter what it is. I'm kind of a moron like that.
 

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Originally posted by teencraft
I regret the stuff I do everyday, but honestly I think I have a problem because anytime I want to do something I do it, no matter what it is. I'm kind of a moron like that.
Haha.

All you need to do is just think before you do it. If you can't think of any negative consequences, then go ahead and do whatever you want.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Michael Chief

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Haha.

All you need to do is just think before you do it. If you can't think of any negative consequences, then go ahead and do whatever you want.
How about NOT thinking and just doing?

EDIT: oops i just read what you quoted. nevermind.
 

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aviod her at all costs untill thursday you should call her up on thursday about this(upcomming) weekend ask her "do you want to hang out on saturday night i have a suprise?" and if she says yeah. then say great ill pick you up around 9 then hang up.... when you pick her up drive to a nice view not to far of a drive you dont want a weird silence...when you get there look over at her and say somthing to get her attnention look at her eyes and kiss her....dont doubt your self she wants you to kiss her, then pull a way after a good kiss, then look at her eyes again and slowly move to kiss her again....and do this one for a long tiime...she will want it i mean she was feeling you up at the movies!!!!!!!!! and turst me go from your instincts from there...

its vital you ignore her untill thursday tho b/c you will probably end up saying somthing stupid...and if you ignore her she will think "why /what did i do to get him to ignore me"
 

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Originally posted by Used
aviod her at all costs untill thursday you should call her up on thursday about this(upcomming) weekend ask her "do you want to hang out on saturday night i have a suprise?" and if she says yeah. then say great ill pick you up around 9 then hang up.... when you pick her up drive to a nice view not to far of a drive you dont want a weird silence...when you get there look over at her and say somthing to get her attnention look at her eyes and kiss her....dont doubt your self she wants you to kiss her, then pull a way after a good kiss, then look at her eyes again and slowly move to kiss her again....and do this one for a long tiime...she will want it i mean she was feeling you up at the movies!!!!!!!!! and turst me go from your instincts from there...

its vital you ignore her untill thursday tho b/c you will probably end up saying somthing stupid...and if you ignore her she will think "why /what did i do to get him to ignore me"
That could work but he could end up eating a lot of crow...I would suggest to forget about this girl...or if he is confident about his skills he could go this route.
 

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yeah but what good is it if you dont try its better to get shot down trying than shoot yourself not trying b/c then you will never know what could have happened.......thts my opinion from my mistakes i have made in the past losing a perfict 10 that i will never regret
 

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Originally posted by guambombO
If I do get one more chance I will initiate. What do you guys think? What did I do wrong and what are my chances? Thanks
See theres your problem. The amount of misopportunities i have had because i kept waiting for the right momment. Mte go out and make theright moment instead of waiting cos who knows when that will come
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Didn't read your post just the subject title.

Anyway, my DJ coach always says, "until you are dead, you always have a chance."

Now think about that for awhile.
 
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