"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do I still have a chance?

Rocko

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ok gents, thx for reading this. First off, i would like to tell you guys that I have corrected my problem from before and have regained my ****y funny ways (hold your applause). Last night I went to a toga party where there were fortunately some cute girls. So I started talking to one of the girls there that happens to be going to my school. I negged her, and shut her down at certain points. I initiated some kino, and then my friend pulled me off of her to go get ****ty. I'm a newbie at drinking, so when i drank half the bottle of smirnoff and no one else was drinking, I'm pretty sure i was making an ass out of myself. The girl left without me knowing, and I may have ruined my chances with the other girls there (maybe, not sure, didn't make a HUGE ass outta myself). I was just curious if there was any possibility that i could still hook up with any of the girls. (They told me where they hang out at school, so i will visit em and talk to em regardless, just wanted to know if its worth it)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PumpingIron13

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If you want them then why would you not pursue. Even if you got really wasted, everyone has their party right lol...I would go for it if they were hot.
 
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