Do I still have a chance with him?

[maddiewilson]

I noticed a guy at my college’s gym who I would see all the time. I smiled at him and he said hi, and the next day, he initiated a conversation with me. We would see each other there a couple days a week and talk for about 20 minutes. He’s 28 ,a grad student, and I’m 19. He SEEMED to show a lot of interest in me, he would remember EVERYTHING i told him, he would always ask me how my midterms or papers went, and he would look at me for a long time and smile and laugh at everything I said. This went on for several weeks, but he never asked me for my number.
School ended, so I added him on Facebook and messaged him. We messaged for about a month, then I casually brought up hiking because it was something he showed interest in. I said that I always wanted to go but could never find anyone willing to go with me, hint hint. He never replied after this! Should I talk to him if I see him when school starts or is he not into me? I developed really strong feelings for him

 

[NoSeckswithB1tches]

I noticed a guy at my college’s gym who I would see all the time. I smiled at him and he said hi, and the next day, he initiated a conversation with me. We would see each other there a couple days a week and talk for about 20 minutes. He’s 28 ,a grad student, and I’m 19. He SEEMED to show a lot of interest in me, he would remember EVERYTHING i told him, he would always ask me how my midterms or papers went, and he would look at me for a long time and smile and laugh at everything I said. This went on for several weeks, but he never asked me for my number.
School ended, so I added him on Facebook and messaged him. We messaged for about a month, then I casually brought up hiking because it was something he showed interest in. I said that I always wanted to go but could never find anyone willing to go with me, hint hint. He never replied after this! Should I talk to him if I see him when school starts or is he not into me? I developed really strong feelings for him

Take that bs to loveshack. This is a forum created by men, about men, and only for men. It's Bro time. Not h0e time.

No femcvnts allowed. No fvcks given to women.

 

[MountainSlide]

I'll give the nice response for you here. Girl says to me "I have no one to go with",, unless I am super interested then I am like "what a loser". But I am smarter than the average pe*is I swear!

 

[hudpes]

If he was interested he'd go for it.

 

[Greasy Pig]

No interest. Send nude pics and then see if he wants to go hiking.

 

[IBreatheSpears]

Have you tried negging him? Men love that.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

What is a girl doing on this site? Why does a girl need help to get a guy? Girls are passive, you just have to sit and wait, be pretty or cute, and that's all

 

[backseatjuan]

What is a girl doing on this site? Why does a girl need help to get a guy? Girls are passive, you just have to sit and wait, be pretty or cute, and that's all

and a guy will jump out of bushes and sex you!

 

[JaegerPilot217]

and a guy will jump out of bushes and sex you!

Obviously who's job, role is it to take the lead, lead? Thats why it doesn't make any damn sense for a girl to be asking for advice

 

[backseatjuan]

man when a girl takes the lead it gets bad you become just a wallet for her

 

[DragonBlood]

I said that I always wanted to go but could never find anyone willing to go with me, hint hint. He never replied after this!

It is possible to get with him, flirt more and be less available. Ive had girls drop big hints like this but because they werent really a challenge I had no enthusiasm about it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtMVVSUfDMA

although, ive already highlighted the BIG ONE (being too eager) If hes 28 and your 19 and your acting like a little girl, its also possible he may have the following additional concerns

1. You could be under age
2. Your a virgin and will cling like hell
3. You have a lot of growing up to do, your personality will change (grow) quickly and he will look back on the situation with remorse


Your honestly not as appealing to this person as someone in 22 - 25 bracket who is more independent and experienced, but also young! so that is something to be aware of.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

man when a girl takes the lead it gets bad you become just a wallet for her

i'm referring to taking the lead as in always making the first move for everything and always making the plans, for what to do and when to do, where to do, etc., advancing every step of the way

 

[backseatjuan]

i'm referring to taking the lead as in always making the first move for everything and always making the plans, for what to do and when to do, where to do, etc., advancing every step of the way

some girls will object and push their own agenda

 

[mangotot]

The man is a beta. Get yourself an alpha dog who will give you a good time in bed.

 

[backseatjuan]

the man is gay or ur not attractive

 

[JaegerPilot217]

some girls will object and push their own agenda

Those girls are very rare