Do i stand any chance here?

[queenkong]

Hmmm can i also ask for some advice? I think you people gives really good suggestions.

What are some of the common ways of findin out this? Lets say When u go out with a gal, she feels appreciative. But how do you know if she's jus being polite or really had fun with you?
[my case after i sent her home i did not contact her, so she messaged me 2hrs+ later and said she really had fun and was very appreciative]

One more question is :
what are some of the common things to look out for if she's at least positive about the impression you gave her? Some examples below:

Let say Starting chance for you to go out with her or call her up to chit chat and when you took the chance and ask her out or called her up, she does not sound reluctant.

You feel that the whole atmosphere when chillin out with her was very natural. You tease her and she defends back bringing joy to the conversations.

Sending you gd luck msgs before ur exams [She's not facing any exams currently]. Nudging you to study hard occasionally. Saying she's bored at times.

Well, basically i do think my impression to her was not bad. But i do not know girls very well and i know for a fact that many guys here do. So wad do u guys think? i am not saying she's interested to me, but more of something like do u guys think at least my impression in her was not bad?


What are some practical ways to test waters?

 

[bambino]

Of course you stand a chance. Be confident when your gonna ask someone out.




Well, did she say thanks right when you dropped her off did she say thanks? What did you guys do?

If she didn't, and said thanks 2 hours later then she was thinking about the trip home with you.

You know she really had fun if she brings up whatever you guys did together. Or anything related to it immediately has a connection with you and her. If she says good luck for you on the exams, she cares about you unless she says it to everyone in the class.

If she was being polite, she'd avoid talking as much and being less sarcastic about anything.

If she had fun, you can tell she enjoys being around you and you two have little or no awkward moments with her.:woo: :woo:

Explain to us more on how well/long you guys know eachother.

 

[queenkong]

oh man.. that was very helpful of you. Its going to be a long one. I really had my first time so close with a girl and had really no experience gauging my progress. Really very grateful to anyone who is willing to tell me any advice.

so here it goes : well my fren's classmate was one of her quite close classmate. So my fren A wanted to intro her to me. It all started with A's class having a class outing. So i was called to go along because they are playing pool [or known as snooker] and it was something that A n me always do. So i went along and A told her im very good at it and i m a nice guy. So does she want me to teach? So she said its alrite she jus watch us play. So she did stood around our table when her classmates opened another 2 tables next to us.
From there, i got her number from A who got her permission. We started simple msging around. We were being sarcastic to each other jokingly every now and then, pretty much enjoyment. So one day she was having a meal with her family and she said she welcome me to join jokingly. So i suggested that y not i bring her out for a meal instead. It started with some indirect approaches joking n teasing ard to test waters and yep, i managed to haf a meal with her.
When we'r out, we chatted pretty much ok and getting more and more natural towards the back. Wad we did was simply chat and ate at a cafe and walked around town aimlessly toking to each other for a couple of hours [time went really fast]. The teasing parts were rather fun n comfortable. So after that i went to fetch her younger sister from school with her and sent her home after.
During the bus rides, our shoulders were pretty much sticked to each other and i could feel her speaking next to my ears. It was so close. The feeling was really escalating when i tease her and she like complained about it, at such a close distance. There was even this moment where she grabbed my hand accidentally because she was finding something to hold on to during the bus ride. She pulled it off soon after and turned away from me, smiling to herself. She didnt even say sorry. I heard it could be a better sign if she didnt say sorry. But i jus do not know?

A couple of days later during one night, she was rather bored at home and her friends were out playing except her [her parents were quite strict] so she had no one to chat with. I volunteered calling her up and we chatted like an hr?
Soon after i contacted her very less often because i was facing some major exams. Im still going through it now so i suppose i can only concentrate on her after my exams soon.

Some of the confusing msgs she sent me was things like : she complained no one wants to spoil her, so i told her how about me spoiling her? She said she will be more den happy that i would. So after that whenever i teased her she would complain that im bullying her when im supposed to spoil her. It set me off thinking if it was pure crap talk there?



I am really confused here. i not a desperate wussy here but i really would like to know does all these meant any positive chances for me? If need more info to further guage, i am more then willing to dig my memory ya? I really do wish to know the direction i am heading towards and not feeling stucked, not knowing is it any good or any bad. THANKS alot man. [ Sorry for the inconvenienced caused because my exclaimation mark key was spoiled so i cant type it. haha]