"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do I respond or not

lovejones

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I know these 2 chicks that are friends. Call the one I want Hottie and the other Nottie. Anyway I got a message on my cell phone saying " I have a friend who needs a lay" then I get another after that it says " Do you want to help her out?" It came from Nottie's cell phone. First I find this imature, but Hotties is 22 I am 29. So should I even respond? I mean what do I say. I guess this most likely is some kind of game.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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OpenMind

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call back and play with them... find out which one needs a lay indirectly and if it is nottie then just play it off.. you never know.. it may be hottie...
 

Big Pappy

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Hey,
Be nice to the not so hot girls too. They often have good looking friends. The not so hot will tell the hotties how good you were. Then they will want to try you themselves.
 

WizardOfOz

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I agree with OpenMind (although I'd just message her back as opposed to calling right away).

If the girlies wanna play then step up to the plate.

Personally I'd reply with something really open like... "Interesting. Tell me more" and see where it leads.

Oh yeah and take note of what Big Pappy has to say. Word.
 
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