"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do i really look that bad??

ready123

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check it out it's Larenz Tate
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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As much of a d!ck as you may think he is, I'm kinda with Obsidian on this one. Whats the point of asking an internet forum (filled with dudes, no less) if you you're good looking or not?

Don't get me wrong, we all sometimes wonder exactly where we are on the looks scale; but you can't let a few slvt buckets bring you down. If you're gonna be a DJ, you're gonna need thicker skin than that.
 

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nah it's O-dog from Menace to Society
 

The Inside Man

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Hey CJ, I think you look pretty handsome actually, lift weights hard for the next couple years and you will be a mack truck. You've got plenty of time man, just have fun and learn!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rex Man said:
As much of a d!ck as you may think he is, I'm kinda with Obsidian on this one. Whats the point of asking an internet forum (filled with dudes, no less) if you you're good looking or not?

Don't get me wrong, we all sometimes wonder exactly where we are on the looks scale; but you can't let a few slvt buckets bring you down. If you're gonna be a DJ, you're gonna need thicker skin than that.
The kid is 16. The guy needs to give the kid a break. I don't know about you, but I was pretty mixed up at that age.

The appropriate response to his thread was that he is a decent looking guy and shouldn't be freaking out about his appearance, because the OP is above-average in the looks department, even though he does look a little bit like O-dog. The advice about not caring about your looks is worth taking, but you don't have to be an a$$ with the way in which you give it.

It's amazing how people get on the Internet where their without an identity and they act like complete jerk-offs.
 

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nah dude, you're a good-looking guy.

and i'm not gay!

if anything your looks should be an asset-- but looks are only one factor in the equation! Make the big money, throw in some negs, and the girls will follow!!! ha ha... but seriously, forget about what some insecure bltch mighta told you.
 

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Another female opinion; you are good looking.

Secondly looks only gets you so far, after a certain point your personality is what keeps/gets her interested. Haven't you seen all these below average looking guys with pretty females??
 

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Comeback kid said:
Im worried about something. Sure i can make my inner self better and im much more confident around girls, but theres a big problem. Im confused if im ugly or not. Many people called me this when i was younger. I don't know what to do about, because there is nothing i can do. I have crooked teeth and a big nose, and thats the 2 worse things i could find about myself. Now what, am i suppose to give up on talking to girls now. Im not trying to sound gay by asking. But do you guys think im hopeless. These are my pictures. One girl online said i needed plastic surgery.


http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=550384583
http://www.myspace.com/59352507
Mate you have an african american nose, be proud...and my teeth are more crooked than that and I don't have a problem.

Seriously man...its your ATTITUDE thats the problem: you could have been a LOT worse looking, I'd say you're at least a little bit above average. If you still think the way you are doing now, then your inner game isn't fixed btw: work on that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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