"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do i really look that bad??

Comeback kid

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Im worried about something. Sure i can make my inner self better and im much more confident around girls, but theres a big problem. Im confused if im ugly or not. Many people called me this when i was younger. I don't know what to do about, because there is nothing i can do. I have crooked teeth and a big nose, and thats the 2 worse things i could find about myself. Now what, am i suppose to give up on talking to girls now. Im not trying to sound gay by asking. But do you guys think im hopeless. These are my pictures. One girl online said i needed plastic surgery.


http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=550384583
http://www.myspace.com/59352507
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You look fine. Quit being a f*cking wuss. You indeed sound gay simply by asking. Maybe she meant plastic surgery to turn you into a woman, because that's what you're acting like.

Man up. Read the Book of Pook, chump.
 

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You look fine.
You look like a pleasant , well adjusted young man.


Work on your Inner Self by accepting those things that you CANNOT change, and CHANGING those things that YOU CAN.

Always keep an ideal LifeStyle in mind.

Work on your goals, your dreams, your desires, and the expereiinces you want to have in your life.


Your number one goal is to constantly learn, improve, overcome, and be the best you can possibly be.

MAXIMIZE YOUR POTENTIAL.
 

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Obsidian said:
You look fine. Quit being a f*cking wuss. You indeed sound gay simply by asking. Maybe she meant plastic surgery to turn you into a woman, because that's what you're acting like.

Man up. Read the Book of Pook, chump.
Yeah, the only thing is my computer wont load the book of Pook because its so slow, ive been trying it for months.
 

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go to to someplace that has faster speeds. Maybe a kinko's or something.
Download it there, and print it out, man.

Also, look up David DeAngelo's On Being a Man.

And look up anything by Dr. Paul Dobransky.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I just took a look at your myspace photo. You look fine to me!

It sounds like you take criticism a little too seriously. And the people who put you down are probably ugly or vain themselves.

If the people you hang around are telling you these things, find some new ones. They say that you are defined by who you are with. That should tell you everything you need to know...
 

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Actually you’re not all that bad. There are guys that are less good looking than you who think that they are hot stuff. Maybe you don’t have the looks and confidence to get the hottest girl in town but you’re not so ugly that you couldn’t be able to get chicks. There are girls out there with crooked teeth and big noses.

If you get caught up on perfection you’ll always be disappointed. Getting women is often in the interaction between you and her. This is true regardless of your looks. Go out there and have fun, be the kind of guy people like to hang out with. Talk with girls all the time, as friends and soon you’ll start to realize that some will think higher of you than you think.
 

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You are handsome. Not cute, pretty, or anything like that, but definately handsome.

I am a chick, and I am very honest about my opinion, lol, so I mean it.
 

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iqqi said:
You are handsome. Not cute, pretty, or anything like that, but definately handsome.

I am a chick, and I am very honest about my opinion, lol, so I mean it.
There you go! Now whether the poster is a potty trained cat that is internet savvy or a frustrated mammal with a degree in web design, you'll really never know.. but hey .. this helps.. atleast you've got feedback!!
 

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Yeah, I thought the book of Pook was great, just because it gets you into that type-A mindset when you feel like you can do anything. But if you can't access it, there are plenty of other books that do the same thing. Scar Tissue, Anthony Kiedis' biography, was great in that regard. You should also be able to find a copy of The Game, it's a little different, but it will also change your view of things. Of course, neither of them solved my problems, but I guess it's a journey, and you might as well read some good books along the way.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't think you're ugly, and you'll be hot. Carry yourself like you're hot, and watch how women react.
 

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You look good to me! Don't let what one girl said get to you. You do NOT need plastic surgery, that's ridiculous. You've got a lot going for you, you have a great smile and you look really sincere.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Obsidian said:
damn I hate when people fish for compliments
outer validation is very common in the beginning stages of game.



....btw i was just kidding about the hitting it thing (just rethought about how some people cant take a joke) :)
 

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you kinda look like the actor that played steve urkel on family matters but when he was being his much less dorky alter-ego. You look fine man, if you don't like your face then concentrate on your physique, your clothes and your personality.
 

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sidewind3r said:
you kinda look like the actor that played steve urkel on family matters but when he was being his much less dorky alter-ego. You look fine man, if you don't like your face then concentrate on your physique, your clothes and your personality.
werd, faces aren't even important.... :p

you could compensate by always pulling the jim carrey "may i ASS you a question" routine... Just make sure your ass looks good, buns of steel :rockon:
 

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actually, more like a mix between the actor that played Urkel and 50 cent. Seriously, just get some confidence by working out and getting some spiffy clothes (those actions give me confidence, don't know about you) and you won't care about your face even though there's nothing wrong with it.
 

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Obsidian said:
You look fine. Quit being a f*cking wuss. You indeed sound gay simply by asking. Maybe she meant plastic surgery to turn you into a woman, because that's what you're acting like.

Man up. Read the Book of Pook, chump.
Wow, you are one tough little Internet thug.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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