"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do I "NEXT" her or do I try, try again?

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doubledown11

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Real quick: Was out with a buddy downtown, we meet these latin girls on the street, 2 fatties, 1 spunky little one and 1 hottie.

We go dancing, the spunky one is unattractive and keeps dancing with me. I dance with her so not to make my intentions with the hottie too clear, as I don't want to appear desperate for her or make it seem like I'm only after her.

Dance with the hottie once, then later after the spunky won't leave me alone, dance with hottie again, it gets pretty physical until one of the fatties PULLS her away from me.

We leave the venue, I get spunky's number first who is all over me, then I casually point my cell phone at hottie who gives me her number.

I text both of them later that night, Spunky responds immediately, Hottie doesn't - I later find out after a second text 2 days later that Hottie's number is the wrong number.

OK - SO THE QUESTION IS:

Spunky is inviting me to some far away latin club on Saturday (I'm not going, I have a sure thing coming over to my apt) - BUT - I am still very much interested in Hottie.... So what do I do? Do you think that the fake number was because she's possibly in a relationship, and this the fatty was rescuing her from herself when she pulled her away?

When I text Spunky to tell her I'm not going, I want to make some attempt at getting Hotties real number...

Or should I just NEXT this and stop having a slight case of one-itis?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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yeah, i think you made a fatal error in getting spunkys number here.
 
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Mr. Me

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>> Do you think that the fake number was because she's possibly in a relationship, and this the fatty was rescuing her from herself when she pulled her away?>>

No, little miss hottie purposefully gave you a wrong number, dude. Chicks do that rather then have a confrontation with some random stranger (you) as to why they don't want to give that guy their number. Move on.

Fatty c@ckblocked you so you wouldn't take her friend away from her and deprive Fattie of whatever benefits she derives from having Hottie around her.

Work on Spunkie. She seems interested. She's a plate and/or you can meet more of her friends.
 
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