"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do I "NEXT" her or do I try, try again?

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doubledown11

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Real quick: Was out with a buddy downtown, we meet these latin girls on the street, 2 fatties, 1 spunky little one and 1 hottie.

We go dancing, the spunky one is unattractive and keeps dancing with me. I dance with her so not to make my intentions with the hottie too clear, as I don't want to appear desperate for her or make it seem like I'm only after her.

Dance with the hottie once, then later after the spunky won't leave me alone, dance with hottie again, it gets pretty physical until one of the fatties PULLS her away from me.

We leave the venue, I get spunky's number first who is all over me, then I casually point my cell phone at hottie who gives me her number.

I text both of them later that night, Spunky responds immediately, Hottie doesn't - I later find out after a second text 2 days later that Hottie's number is the wrong number.

OK - SO THE QUESTION IS:

Spunky is inviting me to some far away latin club on Saturday (I'm not going, I have a sure thing coming over to my apt) - BUT - I am still very much interested in Hottie.... So what do I do? Do you think that the fake number was because she's possibly in a relationship, and this the fatty was rescuing her from herself when she pulled her away?

When I text Spunky to tell her I'm not going, I want to make some attempt at getting Hotties real number...

Or should I just NEXT this and stop having a slight case of one-itis?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJDanny

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yeah, i think you made a fatal error in getting spunkys number here.
 
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Mr. Me

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>> Do you think that the fake number was because she's possibly in a relationship, and this the fatty was rescuing her from herself when she pulled her away?>>

No, little miss hottie purposefully gave you a wrong number, dude. Chicks do that rather then have a confrontation with some random stranger (you) as to why they don't want to give that guy their number. Move on.

Fatty c@ckblocked you so you wouldn't take her friend away from her and deprive Fattie of whatever benefits she derives from having Hottie around her.

Work on Spunkie. She seems interested. She's a plate and/or you can meet more of her friends.
 
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