"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Do I move on? or what?

The Master Disaster

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This is my situation:
The girl I have been hanging out with in class that has shown me 1000 signs of interest and avidly talks to me has a boyfriend. The way I found out which was through myspace. So I don't know if she truthfully does. I haven't hung out with her after school. I make her laugh, we talk all period. She'll miss 1st and 2nd period but will never miss 3rd (our class eventhough its a slacker class). I mean if she has a boyfriend I don't wanna mess, but whenever I ask her how her weekend was it is always "meh." When she asks me I'm just like the best weekend ever (truthfully). We get along have a lot in common and have no akward periods of silence. I just don't know. Do I ask her out? Get more info? or do i move on?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ4Real

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Subtly investigate whether or not she has a boyfriend.
 

DJ4Real

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Do it through conversation. Maybe, ask her to a movie or something like that.

If a girl is 'free' and she likes you, she'll go with you. But if she has a boyfriend (that she's 'committed' to), she'll be a bit skepitcal about going with you. When you ask her, sound confident and assertive. Make seem like, even if she says no, you'll be fine.
 

Mr. Debonaire

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
Do it through conversation. Maybe, ask her to a movie or something like that.

If a girl is 'free' and she likes you, she'll go with you. But if she has a boyfriend (that she's 'committed' to), she'll be a bit skepitcal about going with you. When you ask her, sound confident and assertive. Make seem like, even if she says no, you'll be fine.
good way to go, this way your not screwing up some other dudes life.

When you ask her, say that your going to go do such and such and would she like to come with. This way its not a "date" your just hanging out, then whatever happens happens
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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