"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do i look that old or give old man / old school vibes?

ImprovingJuan

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i ask this because online i only capture the interest of gay guys in their 40s or 50s or old woman in their 50s even 60s.

just be honest and tell me if i look like im in my 50s and if i need to change my appearance if something is atracting these grannies.

you may think its funny but really isnt. so helpia fellow dj out.

btw i'm 41, i never THAT old. maybe its the bald head?

i want to be attractive to women in my age 30-42 not grannies or even gays ... this isnt normal...

http://kornadict.imgur.com/all/
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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you look around 40, but you look kind of gay.
 

ImprovingJuan

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If I remember correctly, you made several threads with a similar topic.

My question to you is....
Why are you so caught up on what other people think of you ?
because i dont find this just a mere coincidence. would you if it happened to you?
 

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I think it's the neatly trimmed beard that makes you look gay. Grow it out some or try a different style. You might try some of those old women. If they are attractive and not land whales, give them a spin you might like it.
 

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I think it's the neatly trimmed beard that makes you look gay. Grow it out some or try a different style. You might try some of those old women. If they are attractive and not land whales, give them a spin you might like it.
you are saying that as i look now i cant do better than 50/60 year old women?

is that it? please confirm
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are you guys really saying basically that i look like **** and i wont date a woman below 60's?

i cant believe this is the dj forum.lol
 

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you are saying that as i look now i cant do better than 50/60 year old women?

is that it? please confirm
No what I'm saying is still try to game younger women, But if an attractive older woman with a banging body is interested in you, you might as well check her oil.
 

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I'm a chick. Probably old by your standards, just FYI.

You have a good appearance. However I'd change up the facial hair a bit. Get it off your neck under your chin. This will better define your jawline which may appear recessed with the hair you leave on your neck.

That would also give the ladies more kissable real estate on your neck.

If you get ambitious go clean shaven for a couple of weekends. Wear a cool hat like a fedora or a bowler. Try a goatee. Switch it up.

Hope that doesn't offend you but don't be afraid to tweak your personal style to appeal to see how you get best results.

Work out & be trim if you don't already.

Depending where you are and where you go out try somewhere less appealing to gays.

Dance night club less, tango or Latin club more, etc.

Now if you live somewhere like San Francisco you'll just have to get used to turning them down most anywhere.
 

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Um. That is NOT an attractive older woman. Nothing bangin about that bod either. o_O
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Quit loitering where such women hang around. You need a target rich environment. That's not it

These women don't go where hotties go. You go where the hot young women go.
 

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Fix your beard. Grow it out more and shave off the part on your neck. You could also try a goatee.

Fix your eyebrows too. They look like crap. They don't need to perfect like a girls, but you should shape them.

I'm not sure what your wardrobe situation is, but get some new clothes that a guy in his early thirties would where. If you don't go to the gym, then start going.

If you want to look younger then start taking vitamins (including biotin), using creams, and use a mens face wash instead of soap.
 

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You've been here for years under different various accounts and have gotten the same responses over and over again. These responses won't change either. You even went on other websites to do this and got the same responses too. Seriously dude, it gets annoying.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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