Do I last too long?

[Raziel Kayne]

My DJ'ing skills are fine. I'm attractive. But there's one thing that I've been wondering about.

I just started having sex on a regular basis early this year. I'm not trying to get a girlfriend right now. I'm a 20 year old testing the waters. My first sexual experience occured when I was 15. I came in less than 3 mins.

My problem (don't really know if it's a "problem") is that I last too long. I can literally f**k for 35 mins straight without getting tired. If I'm in a hurry, I can probably climax in 15 minutes but even then it's hard.

I'm not asking for health tips, but do girls like guys that can f**k for 30+ minutes? Since I didn't become a DJ until early this year, I haven't had much sexual contact. Would a girl rather have 10-15 mins of actual penetration?

I want to make myself better in bed. Girls say I have good tongue action, but I don't wanna make girls fall asleep if I last too long.

 

[Eternal]

Girls generally prefer around 15-30 minutes. After that, they tend to go dry/get sore and it loses feeling and gets boring.

Good foreplay is better than bad sex.

 

[Raziel Kayne]

Ok.

I don't wanna start off good and end bad, if you know what I mean.

At least I can get my willy up and not be a minute man.

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by Raziel Kayne
Ok.

I don't wanna start off good and end bad, if you know what I mean.

At least I can get my willy up and not be a minute man.

Fair enough. Atleast you aren't popping Viagra, or popping in seconds.

Learn to use the tounge. It's the second strongest muscle in the human body.

 

[afc_007]

If you can give a girl an orgasm from foreplay before the sex, then I think it's fine if you want to go as long as you want when you actually have sex.

However, the point about women drying out is true. Plus, you don't want to stay in the same position for those 35 minutes. Vary it up, and try not to make it too routine.

 

[comote]

You know I have had some women dry out as well, but the last gf was a fukin machine. I also tend to last pretty long and she would love it.
suggestions:
1) Getting her to cvm beforehand is a definite must. I always make sure she is taken care of before I get mine, trust me if you do this right you will be paid back tenfold.
2) Let her take control sexually, let her be on top controlling the motion for a while, believe me it is great and especially if she is already taken care of she will be able to handle things again.
3) When you really need to get done quick go doggy style and just pound away.
4) If you are just fvckin random girls use condoms, they do make everything alot worse though.
5) If you are using condoms use a lubricant, know that spermicide contributes to the burning and drying sensation quite a bit as well.
6) Don't fvck in the shower or bath tub, everytime I have done it the girl has gotten a urinary tract infection which definitely is painful for the girl.

 

[Jester]

i ****ed a girl for 5 hours straight without busting once.



its not a bad thing lol

 

[PeeGee]

lol Jester. I used to last hours on end. I had no idea what the problem was until she squeezed up. Aha!

Anyway, don't you get bored/tired after 2 hours? I usually stop bothering after an hour, or at least I did until I learned that I needed more stimulation. In regards to the original poster, you shouldn't think of sex as a marathon

 

[Raziel Kayne]

lol, thanks guys.

 

[DJ Supra]

Originally posted by comote
1) Getting her to cvm beforehand is a definite must. I always make sure she is taken care of before I get mine, trust me if you do this right you will be paid back tenfold.
2) Let her take control sexually, let her be on top controlling the motion for a while, believe me it is great and especially if she is already taken care of she will be able to handle things again.
3) When you really need to get done quick go doggy style and just pound away.

I'm in the same exact position... my first time was 15 and i went after like 2 minutes. Now i can go for a long ass time and when i'm somewhat drunk i can last all night.

You definatly want her to cvm beforehand because multiple orgasms = you looking like you know alot about sex which = her telling all her friends and possible later hookups with them

Make sure you get yours though.. i've had *****es orgasm and not finish me off ! i felt like slapping them in the face.

You should vary your positions up alot. Try looking through different websites , ignoring the many many porn links.