Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do I keep going?

mkang20

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Yo,

I've been seeing this girl for two weeks now. We are both freshmen in college. We met up frequently in the first week, then in the 2nd week, we hardly met, because of conflicting schedules and sadly we both don't have ****ing a car.

For last couple days, she stopped calling me and whenever i call her to hang out, she says she's busy. Today, I saw her with another guy. I asked her friends and it seems like she's been hanging out with him a lot last couple days.

So by this point, it's obvious that she has lost interest in me. I should just move on right?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ye yeah

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everyone here will say move on,i say go for her.. "next her" is a term given around way too lightly
 

Michael Chief

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im no college student, but i heard from many a wise man that it is unwise to go for a relationship during your freshman year. i think you should just have fun with as many women as you want, and avoid oneitis.
i think you should let it go with a smile and be confident that no man can satisfy her (or any woman) as much as you can ;)
 

Phyzzle

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Yeah, 2 weeks is no relationship anyways. You didn't lose anything.

What you don't do is keep calling her or try to get any "closure". Chicks just get annoyed when you don't take the hint. If you simply dissappear, you just might spark interest in her flakey freshman brain.
 
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