Do I have the right to be mad?

[Love_Games?!?]

Today my gf left on a residence trip. I spent the entire day with her downtown getting things that she needed for her trip. When we got back to res I didn't get to spend a minute alone with her because her friends constantly were in and our of her room. Keep in mind they do this all the time.

Once I had realized that I was not going to be able to be alone with her before she left I got quite angry. I explained basically that it's bull**** that she didn't take the initiative to ask her friends or even text them to leave. She had claimed that she did text them and they came anyways...

Every time I complain about her friends always interrupting us she always comes back at me with the same things. "All you ever think about is sex". I think this is a ridiculous comment considering this is my first serious relationship and this girl was my first. I don't think I'm in the wrong for getting angry about us not having sex before she left.

To be honest I wouldn't have even cared if she said she didn't feel like having sex. I'm just angry at the fact that it didn't seem to phase her at all that we didn't get to be alone at all...

Guys do I have the right to be angry her?!

If you have any questions shoot. I'll be happy to elaborate.

 

[sodbuster]

Well, she is not considering your feelings or needs. You would have thought if she were serious about you,she would have ROCKED your world the day before she left[give you something to remember her by.] Since she didn't,I'm thinking you are in trouble[how long is the trip?}.
BUT you are wrong to SHOW your anger about no sex. YOU can't come across as a whiney little boy. ACT like a man,show no emotion. You could have said "I guess we aren't as serious as I thought" [no emotion] or nothing[better]. Start looking for your second-if she doesn't come around,move on to your second sexual partner.
IF she's going to be a pain in the AZz about sex,break up with her. IF more men would do it, we'd all put up with less sh1t as we train these women

 

[kody_starr]

You might want to plan some alone time in advance rather than tagging along and doing her shopping the entire day. Thought about that?

 

[Love_Games?!?]

Well, she is not considering your feelings or needs. You would have thought if she were serious about you,she would have ROCKED your world the day before she left[give you something to remember her by.] Since she didn't,I'm thinking you are in trouble[how long is the trip?}.
BUT you are wrong to SHOW your anger about no sex. YOU can't come across as a whiney little boy. ACT like a man,show no emotion. You could have said "I guess we aren't as serious as I thought" [no emotion] or nothing[better]. Start looking for your second-if she doesn't come around,move on to your second sexual partner.
IF she's going to be a pain in the AZz about sex,break up with her. IF more men would do it, we'd all put up with less sh1t as we train these women

Well son of *****, that's great advice. Wish I had of thought of saying that instead of getting mad. You're probably right I bet I did come across as a whiney little boy. Next time I guess.

She's gone for 10 days, the entire March break... in this case February break.

 

[DonGorgon]

Today my gf left on a residence trip. I spent the entire day with her downtown getting things that she needed for her trip. When we got back to res I didn't get to spend a minute alone with her because her friends constantly were in and our of her room. Keep in mind they do this all the time.

Once I had realized that I was not going to be able to be alone with her before she left I got quite angry. I explained basically that it's bull**** that she didn't take the initiative to ask her friends or even text them to leave. She had claimed that she did text them and they came anyways...

Every time I complain about her friends always interrupting us she always comes back at me with the same things. "All you ever think about is sex". I think this is a ridiculous comment considering this is my first serious relationship and this girl was my first. I don't think I'm in the wrong for getting angry about us not having sex before she left.

To be honest I wouldn't have even cared if she said she didn't feel like having sex. I'm just angry at the fact that it didn't seem to phase her at all that we didn't get to be alone at all...

Guys do I have the right to be angry her?!

If you have any questions shoot. I'll be happy to elaborate.

HERE IS SOME HARSH REALITY:

She has been done with you for some time... and has told all her friends and they know that she has Fed other guys... they know she does not respect your relationship or you anymore and that is why they intrude like that... if your girl liked you she would make sure that you Fed like wild monkey before she left...lol


i hope you have other sex options than her? NEVER EVER DEPEND ION ONE WOMEN FOR SEX women can sense when you are pending on them for sex and it turns them off... that is why women who have cheating boyfriends tend to be way more interested and turned on by their man

 

[Love_Games?!?]

HERE IS SOME HARSH REALITY:

She has been done with you for some time... and has told all her friends and they know that she has Fed other guys... they know she does not respect your relationship or you anymore and that is why they intrude like that... if your girl liked you she would make sure that you Fed like wild monkey before she left...lol


i hope you have other sex options than her? NEVER EVER DEPEND ION ONE WOMEN FOR SEX women can sense when you are pending on them for sex and it turns them off... that is why women who have cheating boyfriends tend to be way more interested and turned on by their man

You my friend are a ****ing idiot. Her friends come in because they enjoy hanging around us. Not because she instructs them too. And if you think that cheating on my gf is the solution to this then your out of your ****ing mind. Why not focus on giving good advice to one thread and not ****ty advice to every thread. I see all your dumbass posts.

 

[Ease]

HERE IS SOME HARSH REALITY:

She has been done with you for some time... and has told all her friends and they know that she has Fed other guys... they know she does not respect your relationship or you anymore and that is why they intrude like that... if your girl liked you she would make sure that you Fed like wild monkey before she left...lol

i hope you have other sex options than her? NEVER EVER DEPEND ION ONE WOMEN FOR SEX women can sense when you are pending on them for sex and it turns them off... that is why women who have cheating boyfriends tend to be way more interested and turned on by their man

Dont agree with the first paragraph, over-reaction.

By contrast, definitely agree with the second.

When a woman takes a step back from you, you take 2 back from her. If she doesnt give you the attention/admiration/appreciation/sex you want and need, then the only thing you can do is get it elsewhere. Damn right you are correct to be pissed off, but that wont make her more interested in you or want sex. That will make you a needy whiny *****.

You are dependant too much, and she probably knows it best. If cheating on your girlfriend is a big deal for you, then flirt around and leave it there. If that is too much for you, then you're gonna have to have some alone time with redtube.

Her interest level in you isnt as high as you would like. An obsessively attracted girl will ditch her best friend to hang out with you alone. Thats the level you want her to be. But being a whiny ***** isnt going to make her interest level get any higher.