"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do I have no idea what im doing? or is this chick wack?

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So theres this girl im friends with but we never really hang out, well we hung out about a week ago and had a real blast, and the next couple days she was calling me like crazy and we were hanging alot, she was giving me a vibe like she really like me, but all of a sudden shes backed off a bit, and the last couple times we've hung out shes been like talking about other dudes, i just pretend like it doesnt bother me but switch the subject kinda. Is this a test or am i just wack? :confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It depends on what she's saying about other guys. If she is mentioning other guys who like her or ask her out or are hitting on her then she is trying to light a fire under your ass to ask her out. That's how women demonstrate "social proof" to a guy she is showing interest to and who she likes but who won't get off his ass and make a move.

If she is talking about how hot a guy is or how she likes this guy or that guy then she sees you as a friend.

If you tell me what it is she was saying I'll tell you what it means.
 
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The contact you've had with her in such a small time interval may have made her feel as though she's "caught" you; that is, you're no longer a challenge because you're always available. Be the prize!

Lesson: if she calls to hang out, decline every now and then. Maintain a mysterious nature about yourself and RATION the attention you give to her. You also might want to consider flirting with other girls in her presence just as she does with other guys in your presense, although this could backfire and seriously offend her if she's the jealous type. But I'd suspect it would only help you (she will try harder to win you).

Good luck! :)
 
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Yeah... its called P.M.S.
PMS
PMS
PMS
HAVE you NEVER heard that women have monthly cycles?

she was in heat (She was flirty)
a week later
she was PMSing (She was a *****)

Read this...
http://www.fwhc.org/birth-control/fam.htm
See where it says infertile?
Yeah.... THATS WHEN SHE"LL BE A B*TCH!
See those numbers 1 2 3 in the fertile ?
That’s when your chances triple...
 
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*bump*
Why?
Because I've posted this same reply or similar like 5 times now.
Each time I get no response... or someone doesn’t understand the chart on the url...

I know I'm not nuts...
I've told my friends about it in response to their relationship problems.
Two or three months later they already come back and tell me, "you were right, she wants to **** really bad one week, then a ***** the VERY next!"

Keep in mind for each girl PMS seems to effect them to different degrees.
I know some girls that are flirty every day of the month.
Some that are MAJOR *****es when they PMS!
I think its due two main factors...
Intelligence and Body Chemistry.

I have time to kill - Time for a story!
Also there was this one girl I dated about 11 months ago. I called her back for a 2nd date a few days later and she just wasn't feeling me... I could tell due to the lack of interest in the conversation. She laughed less, wasn't very flirty, etc... I told her to call me back when she start feeling better. Well about 3 weeks later she called me and I told her I'd let her know when we could hang out in the next few days. Sure enough when I called her back she was back to being boring...
Still I didn't have enough facts, I agree...
So she adds me on myspace and starts messaging me on MSNM.
I noticed over the next 6 months I would hear from her about every 4 weeks.
I told a guy friend that knows her about how she'd message once a month almost to the day...
So I go on her myspace...
She would always log in around the 25th...
She wouldn't sign in myspace for 3 1/2 weeks at a time.
This went on for about 4 months.
So I told that mutual friend on ours I swore to god she was anti-social unless she was in heat.
Sure enough... He'll text me once a month. Guess who messaged me....

I over analyze situations.
This being one of them.

Think about it like this.
We as guys are always in heat... SPEAD THAT SEED!
Women on the other hand... eh...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Wyldfire said:
It depends on what she's saying about other guys. If she is mentioning other guys who like her or ask her out or are hitting on her then she is trying to light a fire under your ass to ask her out. That's how women demonstrate "social proof" to a guy she is showing interest to and who she likes but who won't get off his ass and make a move.

If she is talking about how hot a guy is or how she likes this guy or that guy then she sees you as a friend.

If you tell me what it is she was saying I'll tell you what it means.
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hey bro im in the same situation. I dont really hang out with this chick though only visit her cause she works the office across the hall from us. She's told me how a certain guy tried to get in her pants. recently she's told me how her x-bf are now friends but she complains about him, but she does talk about another dude that she says is hot. I never tried to game this chick, never her gave her attention, being that its work,etc. What does it mean?
 
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