"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guiys, our first date after making out during a bar crawl:. Analysis please!

"So, I hope youre not just aimlessly driving around trying to find yoru place; Anyway, thanks again for a lovely evening. I really enjoyed the food and drink. Oh and you were cool too :)"

Shes referring to me not knowing my way around town.

Do I have her hooked guys?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"So, I hope youre not just aimlessly driving around trying to find your place; Anyway, thanks again for a lovely evening. I really enjoyed the food and drink. Oh and you were cool too "

Really hope you didnt respond with anything along the lines of "Ya i enjoyed tonight too...also you were cool too". ****y Funny would be best.

And id wait three days and see if she texts you. If so feel free to respond and try to set up date 2. If she doesnt wait 3 days or so then hit her up. Thats how youll know if shes hooked.
 
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She is trying to dominate the frame there with a slight backhanded insult. As if you came second to the food and drink, which you probably paid for. I would just play it cool and text her something like

" i liked the food too. "
 
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CaConfused said:
Hey guiys, our first date after making out during a bar crawl:. Analysis please!

"So, I hope youre not just aimlessly driving around trying to find yoru place; Anyway, thanks again for a lovely evening. I really enjoyed the food and drink. Oh and you were cool too :)"

Shes referring to me not knowing my way around town.

Do I have her hooked guys?
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I am not a fan of chicks who insult like that unless there is already some great rapport there...

I would message her back:

i am aimlessly looking for a good night club...try not to dream about me too much

and if she doesn't like it let her walk.....she backhandedly insulted you twice, show her you don't give 2 sh&ts about keeping her and establish your frame...she will either gravitate or back away...but if your convo and kissing were any good, i would say she will likely gravitate...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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