"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do I have an STD?

incognito42

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I know, I should get tested and am going to get tested. Ive avoided it out of fear. Happened about 6 months ago, and Ive pretty much been depressed and totally avoiding meeting girls since then.

So I made a mistake, obviously. My first love came back in my life. We had sex, oral, everything. Her pvssy was stank. It wasnt like that for the 3 years we went out. Girl was fishy. Like she had just come in from jogging. About a week later I got a sore on my penis. 1 single sore about the size of a dime, painless. Lasted about a week and went away. The only other symptom Ive had since then is that my crotch smells like her fish ALWAYS.

I flat out asked her if she had a STD and if she had been tested and she said NO and that she was tested weeks earlier when she thought she was pregnant. She couldve been lieing, probably was. Sounds like syphillis from the research Ive done. Can anyone tell me for sure? Its embarssing even to say on here, so Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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EIther you have an infection from friction and scratching or you could have ghonnorea. Get to doctor because its treatable. Next time use a condom.
 

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Ive looked up STD symptoms and none of them say anything about smell. Is smell a symptom of all of them?

Are they curable so that I have the ability to have unprotected sex again? Sorry these questions may seem stupid but I know very little.
 

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I dont even think you are serious. You cant possibly be this stupid, can you? Im done witht his thread. If you are serious go to hospital emergency room and get it taken care of.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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incognito42

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Im serious dude. I really dont know much about STDs. I realized I might get humiliated on here, but ahh well
 

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incognito42 said:
Im serious dude. I really dont know much about STDs. I realized I might get humiliated on here, but ahh well
Dude, see a doctor. They're not going to humiliate their patients. Sores on Captain Winky is not a good thing.
 

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I know, the real reason I havent yet is fear of finding out for sure I do have an STD. Not afraid of the doctor, afraid of their answers. Just brought it up here to see if I can get any help until I get over my fear of going to the doctor. Im going to go tomorrow though if I have the money
 

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incognito42 said:
I know, the real reason I havent yet is fear of finding out for sure I do have an STD. Not afraid of the doctor, afraid of their answers. Just brought it up here to see if I can get any help until I get over my fear of going to the doctor. Im going to go tomorrow though if I have the money
Are you retarded? Seriously? I'm dead fvcking serious in asking that question.

GO SEE A DOCTOR!

Borrow money from your parents or friends if you need to. We are not doctors! Chances are the most education any of us have here on this topic is from the university of google.
 

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Anybody who doesn't know some basics about STD's and protection has no business having sex. PERIOD.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thanks for the advice, you have been very helpful GOL.

I know what comdoms are. Do you always use them? I know STDs are what they say they are, DISEASES. I dont know if they are curable. I dont know which ones have which symptoms accept for a couple. I'm going to the doctor, just thought i might get some friendly advice. I figured Id draw some d@uche b@gs to this conversation, so Im not surprised
 

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wow bro, you IQ must be less then a box of hair.


GO SEE YOUR DOC.


wow, and if your wii wii becomes disabled i bet your gonna be blaming the kids on this site for "not giving you advice" :rolleyes:
 

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Relax. I myself have had a few scares before that turned out to be a skin rash passed from skin to skin contact. Goto your doctor, ask him what you should do. They deal with this stuff everyday it's nothing new to them. As for the smell, it's probably all in your mind.
 
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