Guys I'm in this difficult situation: I'm 30 and I my girl has 27. She lives with me in my place and we are together for about three years. During this time she have been a good girlfriend, except that she is very insecure about me, and also very possessive regarding other persons that surround me. Also I feel that she doesn't trust me completely. She is divorced and so am I.
I have some women friends with whom I exchange emails, and I exchanged some spicy emails with one from my workplace (about sexual preferences). Please keep in mind than I never cheat. But one of these emails fall in my girlfriend's mailbox, I still don't know very well why or how. I suspect the girl from my workplace sent it to her... But I'm not sure. In that period my girlfriend also received some strange phone calls, so I suspect the girl from my workplace might be psychotic.
But this was 3 months ago... We had a BIG fight (in this fight she even threaten to leave me but it was only bluff - in the end the fight ended when I spoke about leaving her), but then things settle... We went to London on vacation... Everything OK. Or I thinked they were... Now that I'm back to work I have been seeing in her the insecurity increasing, to a point where I feel a big negative energy when I'm near her. Today we had another big argument and she keeps mentioning the episode of the email... I say to her to trust me, but it's like she is obsessed with my workplace email episode. She now touches me less and it's like she's always waiting for my touch or attention before she moves... I don't like it.
Temporary problem or permanent problem?... What do you think guys, is this a woman for the future?
Jorge
I have some women friends with whom I exchange emails, and I exchanged some spicy emails with one from my workplace (about sexual preferences). Please keep in mind than I never cheat. But one of these emails fall in my girlfriend's mailbox, I still don't know very well why or how. I suspect the girl from my workplace sent it to her... But I'm not sure. In that period my girlfriend also received some strange phone calls, so I suspect the girl from my workplace might be psychotic.
But this was 3 months ago... We had a BIG fight (in this fight she even threaten to leave me but it was only bluff - in the end the fight ended when I spoke about leaving her), but then things settle... We went to London on vacation... Everything OK. Or I thinked they were... Now that I'm back to work I have been seeing in her the insecurity increasing, to a point where I feel a big negative energy when I'm near her. Today we had another big argument and she keeps mentioning the episode of the email... I say to her to trust me, but it's like she is obsessed with my workplace email episode. She now touches me less and it's like she's always waiting for my touch or attention before she moves... I don't like it.
Temporary problem or permanent problem?... What do you think guys, is this a woman for the future?
Jorge
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