"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Aesthetix29

Aesthetix29

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okay I'll cut a long story short there's a girl (been friends a while) always kind of had sexual chemistry when out etc... anyways I took her on a date in November which went well.. and none of us really pursued it afterwards .. last week I commented on a fb post of hers and she messaged me saying we need a catchup ... we went out for drinks last Tuesday .. ended up back at hers but no sex just kissing and drinking ... not really heard anything since .. she texted saying she enjoyed the night, and would text after sleeping. Never got the text but she keeps liking my posts.

Since last Tuesday, she's keeps liking my post on fb ( not sure if that's her way of saying I'm still here )

I jokingly asked her about what happened the last time we went out .. and she said I didn't pursue so thought I wasn't interested.

The fact is I am but don't want to come across full on or needy.

How do I approach this ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Duke

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have you asked her out again or not? Sounds to me like she is interested. Its you I wonder about.
 
Aesthetix29

Aesthetix29

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No not yet ... when you say it's me, What do you mean ?
 
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