"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do I game right away, or wait?

ARrocket

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HB9.5 randomly adds me on facebook...she doesn't go to my school, nor did she ever. We have 2 mutual friends, but I'm pretty sure I've never met this girl anywhere in my life. The name doesn't ring a bell at all.

So, the plan is to send something C&F back and the rest depends on her response. The question is, should I do something right away, or let it sit for a few days first? Thanks.

EDIT: I hit my max posts, but thanks guys. I replied with "hey who is this? How do you know XXXX and XXX?"

This 10 post thing is pissing me off...I think it should go by the date, not 1440 minutes or whatever the thing said lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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swifTy

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yea man start straight away. send a feeler msg.

"hey, who's this?

i wouldn't crank out the c&f just yet. if you do bro, she'll be like haa haa fuk, i just add this guy and he's already tryna impress me with his wit. haa haa. too easy.

"hey, whos this?" is foolproof. she has to qualify, and you've stepped up, but you haven't over revealed anything and plenty of room to progress afta that.
 

Max Power

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ask, "How do you know (insert names of one of the two mutual friends here)?"
 
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