"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do I even have a chance?

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Girls who are 15 will prefer a Don who is 14 over a Non who is 16.


So go up to her and say:

"Hey there queen cutie holla back, cuz even though you a year older Ima Jr mac"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Bling


The only time I talk to her is online, should I start saying hi to her in the hall or something? Should I start hanging out with her?
hell yes!!! Lsten, IM is good and all, but it wont get you anywhere on its own. Yuo have to meat this girls face to face, and yes, you should chill with her

Oh, and one more thing, DONT EVER assume there isnt anyone interested in her, I did to the girl I had been crushing on before I came to this site, and I took my time and she got snatched up and has been in the same relationship for 9-10 months. im not saying rush it, but dont be to laid back or you could have problems
 

Bling

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Originally posted by chill
hell yes!!! Lsten, IM is good and all, but it wont get you anywhere on its own. Yuo have to meat this girls face to face, and yes, you should chill with her

Oh, and one more thing, DONT EVER assume there isnt anyone interested in her, I did to the girl I had been crushing on before I came to this site, and I took my time and she got snatched up and has been in the same relationship for 9-10 months. im not saying rush it, but dont be to laid back or you could have problems
How do you suggest I do that? I don't have any classes with her, and her friend doesn't like to talk about anyone but herself, so we barely talk about me and crushed.
 

Void

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Originally posted by Bling
I bet your cousin all the girls liked, was 6'1", had a body like Arnold S., and was such a DJ, even Tyra Banks would give him a second look. lol. I'm not that.
No he was about 5'6. And he wasn't that ripped. But he did play football.
The thing was his attitude here buddy.
 

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Yeah, well I haven't talked to her since that day. She hasn't been online once. I am paranoid, so I do think that she might have blocked me or something. It's just an egotistical thing right now. I want to friggin' own that biatch, and right now I have no way to communicate wit her.


Should I just go out with someone else, and make her notice or something?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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