If a younger guys wanted to ask an older girl out, what would have to be the circumstances? Do I at least have to be a Sophomore with a car? Do I need to be bulk? If she knows me now, and my body becomes bigger over the next year, could her opinion of me change, or will I always be the "younger kid that crushed on me" to her?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Do I even have a chance?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
not with that attitude believe it or not women don't realy care about age but, the thing is don't get hung up on this girl, if she doesn't say yes lick your wounds, then go out and get another girl
remember there are more women in this world then men now go get one
remember there are more women in this world then men now go get one
I'm a Freshman, she's a Sophomore. She's my friend's best friend. I'll see what I can do over the summer to make myself more attractive to her (I hope to be at least 5'9" by next year--Sophomore year, and I hope to have a six pack, bigger chest and have gained at least 10 lbs being about 110 lbs.). If I get a six pack, I'm a try to one day talk about belly buttons. I have an outie, so we'll talk about it, and I'll "prove I got an outie". When in fact, she'll notice a six pack. Haha....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I like her looks and all, but it seems I'm the only guy that's ever liked her (and she knows). There are hotter girls, but I don't like any of them for their personality like I do her. Hopefully there's a chance there.
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
I tell 19 year old juniors in college im a senior in HS all the time.
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
Eh, my bad, i cant add. They'd b sophomores, wouldnt they?
I lie to 20 year olds, say im 18. I lie to 22 year olds, and say im 20. I lie to 24+ year olds, and say im 22.
I lie to 20 year olds, say im 18. I lie to 22 year olds, and say im 20. I lie to 24+ year olds, and say im 22.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I wouldn't go and try and get yourself a six pack thinking that it will make her fall for you. Just don't act like you are inferior to her, act like your still the man in charge, and her age doesn't have an effect on you. A big chest, six pack, and more height isn't gonna get you this girl if you don't got your game straight. She ain't gonna look at your six pack and be like "OMG you have a six pack **** me!!", cause every other guy shes seen probably has one too. So don't wait the whole summer n ****, or she will be either taken or your chance will be gone to get with her. Lay that game down and stil try and get six pack and stuff, but don't depend on that stuff to get you the girl. Good luck
So what would an older chick want to do with me? I'm sure I'd have to be on the top of my game.
The only time I talk to her is online, should I start saying hi to her in the hall or something? Should I start hanging out with her?
and I'm the only one that's shown interest in her.
You already lost. Your attitude toward the whole thing is terrible.
"So what would an older chick want to do with me?" says you.
What would she want to do with you? Ask yourself, "So what WOULDN'T an older chick want to do with me!?!!" and you shall win...
"So what would an older chick want to do with me?" says you.
What would she want to do with you? Ask yourself, "So what WOULDN'T an older chick want to do with me!?!!" and you shall win...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.