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Do I continue my relationship with this girl?

omgwtfm8

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I've been with her for 6 months. We broke off official boyfriend and girlfriend titles just last month because of the summer and she didn't know what she wanted. The past month has been nothing but drama, playing games, and problems.

She wanted to become official again after she felt like she was losing me. I stopped hanging out with her, I stopped calling her. She wanted to be together. I didn't take her back. I told her that she's gotta prove it to me because I didn't trust her.

So she's been trying to prove it to me. Well in the mean time I'm talking to this new chick. I hooked up with her. But she's very busy. I want to start something with the new girl but she's on a very busy hectic schedule.

Well the girl i've been with for awhile just recently started telling me she loves me, it's slipping her mouth, and she heard about this new girl and called me crying. Saying she feels uneasy and stuff. I played it off and told her she has nothing to worry about. The next night she brought it to my attention that she wants to be official again. She wants us to be back to normal... etc. I accepted because i thought she really changed.

Now I'm official boyfriend/girlfriend as of 2 days ago.

I just got the call that she has sucked her ex-bf's **** 5 days ago while she was drunk and high at the beach. I got phone calls from her right after she probaly sucked it confessing her love how she missed me.

Now how do i handle this situation? Technically we didn't cheat because we weren't official. I hooked up with a girl. She hooked up with a guy. Ugh... I feel like i should hit it and quit and put this girl in her place...
 

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forget her!.. she has to prove that she's worthy before you commit to her or give her attention, and this one didn't..

Just realize that there are better girlz out there waiting for you, and stop waisting your time with this one. If she disrespected you in anyway, do not stay in touch with her! Just tell her you have enough friends if she wants to be just friends after that!:up:
 
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Forget her.

Hell, she was rolling the hay with her ex-bf then she'd call you to say that she loves you?? That's cr@p, man!
 

MacDiddy

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You know, there have been 5 or 6 recent post, where I have condemned our fellow DJ (& wanabes) about relying on a chicks word.... And you dude, have provided an exemplary example of what chicks are like relationship wise...

Now of course you can't blame the chicks for this... this is who they are... But you can only blame yourself (you AFCs) for being fooled...

As they say, fool me once, shame on her, fool me twice shame on me!!!!!

I think the only way to redeem yourself is to go out and find another chick!!! then dump this one... Improve your DJ skills so you don't get into this situations again...
 

omgwtfm8

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She hasn't told me about what she did. I am going to need help putting this girl in her place. I'm going to break things off. How should i bring it up? I want to see if she'll admit it.
 

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omgwtfm8 said:
She hasn't told me about what she did. I am going to need help putting this girl in her place. I'm going to break things off. How should i bring it up? I want to see if she'll admit it.
I'm just sitting here drooling. Are you braindead? You are awful needy, wanting to jump from relationship to relationship. Why not just have fun, and stop worrying?

Think about your ex sucking this guy's c0ck and him nutting all her mouth, and her choking on his nut. Get the visual? He was probably laughing at you while you were on the phone with her. She probably was too. Forget this hoe.

Actually, I'd probably fukk her one last time. Be a fukkin man, dude.
 

drumerdud

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dude..i had similar experiences....dont go with this girl anymore. Seriously...notice how she "loves" you only when ur not around..this is called being a DJ. I was once like that..but then she complained about me being cold and stuff..so i show affection...then boom. she tells me to move one. So dude, seriously..SERSIOULY ...move on.....OR do what my friend does...have her around..but date other people. If u get caught..tell her u dont want it anymore. If she wants to break up..fine..thats what you wanted in the first place. So yea.haha
 

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omgwtfm8 said:
I just got the call that she has sucked her ex-bf's **** 5 days ago while she was drunk and high at the beach. I got phone calls from her right after she probaly sucked it confessing her love how she missed me.
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Well you'd be kissing his **** if you kiss that *****.

That's enough for me to tell a girl f**k off.

Damn that's making me trip right now, SLAP THAT *****.

Ugh that's sick. Maybe I'm just trippin. I mean yall weren't goin out. But just thinkin about that pisses me off
 

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If you get back with her, i'll probably go kill myself if i were you.
 

omgwtfm8

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Update: She came over and sucked my **** today LOLOLOL, She's on her period and she quotes, "I wish i wasn't!" It was wild... WTF This girl's a slut.. Should i keep her around for just some fvcking? We are apparently boyfriend and girlfriend... I don't respect or care for this girl anymore but she'll actually be loyal when she's official with me...

I dunno. I think i'll hold on to her, fvck her more, then drop her like it's hot and call her a sucker for letting me fvck her one last time.

Should I even b!tch her out or bring up the fact that she sucked her ex-bf's d!ck?

It sucks this had to end like this, she was a HB9, good lay, crazy, etc.
 

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That's cool but don't waste time with her. Get what you want and keep movin. She's not worth ANY time at all. Get her to suck you off when you want, then peace out.

Damn, but that's cold hearted. lol. Maybe you should just drop her and go mallin and some girls.
 

omgwtfm8

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Bigg Boss said:
That's cool but don't waste time with her. Get what you want and keep movin. She's not worth ANY time at all. Get her to suck you off when you want, then peace out.

Damn, but that's cold hearted. lol. Maybe you should just drop her and go mallin and some girls.
I'm already talking to a girl that's HB9.5+, we plan to see each other this Friday (party) and Saturday (date).

Seriously though, I used to have strong feelings for her to the point where I would feel so uneasy when she went out to parties. Now I don't care what she does as long as she comes back to me and gives me a good lay.

This girl is 17, i'm 18. Is this normal around my age?
 

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omgwtfm8 said:
I've been with her for 6 months. We broke off official boyfriend and girlfriend titles just last month because of the summer and she didn't know what she wanted. The past month has been nothing but drama, playing games, and problems.

She wanted to become official again after she felt like she was losing me. I stopped hanging out with her, I stopped calling her. She wanted to be together. I didn't take her back. I told her that she's gotta prove it to me because I didn't trust her.

So she's been trying to prove it to me. Well in the mean time I'm talking to this new chick. I hooked up with her. But she's very busy. I want to start something with the new girl but she's on a very busy hectic schedule.

Well the girl i've been with for awhile just recently started telling me she loves me, it's slipping her mouth, and she heard about this new girl and called me crying. Saying she feels uneasy and stuff. I played it off and told her she has nothing to worry about. The next night she brought it to my attention that she wants to be official again. She wants us to be back to normal... etc. I accepted because i thought she really changed.

Now I'm official boyfriend/girlfriend as of 2 days ago.

I just got the call that she has sucked her ex-bf's **** 5 days ago while she was drunk and high at the beach. I got phone calls from her right after she probaly sucked it confessing her love how she missed me.

Now how do i handle this situation? Technically we didn't cheat because we weren't official. I hooked up with a girl. She hooked up with a guy. Ugh... I feel like i should hit it and quit and put this girl in her place...
You dump her sorry, you would not be posting here if it was all cool.

sorry man, but i think you know the answer to this one yourself.
 

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dump her if you want to. I don't see what the issue with her is. ye broke up, you went and shagged a girl, she did likewise. Since you're only 17 and 18, just keep the relationship casual as you're doing now. Why do people on this site feel the need to hate on the girl in EVERY post thats brought up.
 
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