"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do I Confront Her, What do I say?

TheDogg

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Hi all,
I'm a 20 year old college student at a small liberal arts school. Meeting girls is a challenge because the good looking ones are in limited numbers.

Anyways, a week ago, I met up with a girl at a dance that I had been communicating with for over a month already. She's an 8. I was unsure how much she liked me. Things got fairly hot at the dance when we started kissing, then we went back to her room, I stayed for over an hour, passionately doing everything but sex and oral.

The following week was a bit awkward between us, but I decided to invite her out to dinner, thinking that it would be a good idea after what had previously happened. Dinner went well, I was a bit nervous, but I feel that I carried on the conversations very well. I had planned to hang out with her all that night, but she told me she already made plans with her friends to see a movie, so we walked back, and held hands for a little while. I feel like it's somewhat odd that she had arranged to see a movie with her friends following out date.

I didn't talk to her after our date until I ran into her the following night. She appeared to be doing some hardcore flirting with another guy, and I (already intoxicated) was in no shape to say anything.

I feel like I could've been played. Should I confront this girl? Should I let it play itself out and not do/say anything? Should I ignore her to see what her reaction is?
I really don't know what to say to her. I felt like we had something going, but now I feel like she decided she didn't care.

Suggestions, please.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Obsidian

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Say no to hors!!!!

i'm being serious. Almost this exact same thing happened to me in November. And I go to a small liberal arts school. (Are you copying me?) You can't be emotional with a hor; the best you can do is use her for physical pleasure, and I don't even recommend that.
 

NickSCFC2000

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I'd just back off a bit, she'll start to think about you more, that's what usually happens.

Don't worry too much mate, plus even just gettin naked n rollin around is always cool even if it aint full sex :p
 
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