"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Do I call/text or does she call/text?

Swashbuckler

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So, I am just curious to see the opinions on this. The night of a date, does the guy call and check if they're still on for the night or does the girl? Especially, if the time isn't given.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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underoath777

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Text her something like, "Make sure you wear dancing shoes! See you 10" or something that implies everything is going smoothly, without asking if it's still on. You're the prize...of course it's still on!!

Props to AFC Adam for that.

IF she doesn't show, don't react with words. NEVER react with words (I'm learning this myself)

IF she says you can't make it, then tell her "Oh ok, well how are you going to make it up to me?" Props to a member here for that! Sorry I forgot who!
 

secks

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Text her: look sexy tonight

Tells her: what time, what you expect, what to do, and makes her excited in 3 words.
 

BigJimbo

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She should be the one who wants you. I know horny boys in America and Britain can't seem to get that into their heads but she should want you more than you want her. I would never contact like some of you would.
 

Kailex

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I never contact before a date. It gives them the chance to back out.
Screw it, if she doesn't show up, I might as well go somewhere else since I dressed up already.

So far, I've never been stood up. Although sometimes I really wish I was.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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