"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do I bulk or do i cut?

HavM

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Do i try bulking or cutting? I'm 5'10" 160lbs. I have a beer belly, and facial fat that i'm trying to get rid off. My arms and legs are pretty skinny? which way do i go?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Eat clean and workout, but lean more toward cutting. You'll find that you will appear to be bulking to others. Others will notice you in better shape and assume you are bulking when in fact you are cutting.
 

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Do you have a way to measure your body fat perchantage, HavM? That would give us a better image of if you need to cut or bulk.

Based on your weight, I would say you need to bulk. You need to eat clean and bulk. I'm currently 5'9, 180 lbs and still bulking for another month.

That is all just my opinion though.
 
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