"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DO I ask AGAIN???

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LegendBoy

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OKay i made a topic rejection last week. I asked the chick out she made some excuses and said she couldn't come. Then she msg me 3 hours later saying sorry and that she wanted to go out for the same day I had asked her out. I also rejected her offer.

So is this the green light for me to go for it. Why would a girl reject your offer then offer later themselves seriously never happened wtf is up with that.

Thanks guyys.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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KillaCam

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Ask her out, last chance. If she blows it, next.

Easy :)
 
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She just wants to do it on her own terms, it's a comefort thing. Just go with it. Just call the her, non of this "msg me" crap. You'll have to talk to her at some point, might as well start with a call.

PS: Admin, what the **** is up with all the *** catching censorship. This is a site about ****ing, why can't I type the word and actually have it show up in the post.
 
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I made the call and after she rejected the offer. I just okay cya l8r. If it was before I would of tried reasoning lollolol. Thanks to the site I didn't do something that dumb.

Haha she is a retarddd her myspace screen name is " I like asking for things and getting them". Well the hoe didn't get it.
 
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KillaCam

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LegendBoy said:
I made the call and after she rejected the offer. I just okay cya l8r. If it was before I would of tried reasoning lollolol. Thanks to the site I didn't do something that dumb.

Haha she is a retarddd her myspace screen name is " I like asking for things and getting them". Well the hoe didn't get it.
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Good on ya mate :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The language censorship is so that it doesn't get filtered by search engines for content or other filters.
 
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x0054 said:
She just wants to do it on her own terms, it's a comefort thing. Just go with it. Just call the her, non of this "msg me" crap. You'll have to talk to her at some point, might as well start with a call.

PS: Admin, what the **** is up with all the *** catching censorship. This is a site about ****ing, why can't I type the word and actually have it show up in the post.
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Well sir, this site isn't about fuk!ing, it's about improving yourself, as a man. A man is not a slut, nor does he worry 24/7 about the next sex technique.

not saying that sex isn't covered on the site, but it's definitly not the main focus.
 
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Why would a girl reject your offer then offer 3 hours later? She also knows I am interested I have never said it. But kino and the way I talk.

And no I am not saying tell me she is interested but I felt she was before she rejected the first proposal. What is your take on this guys.
 
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She's a hypocriet, dumb her while you still can. My girlfriend is the same, but I'm stuck on her now, and I regret it 6 days outta 7, the one day I see her(thats mostly with luck :d) I dont... LOL :crackup:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Who is John Galt?

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NEXT her. She will be nothing but trouble down the road.
 
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