Do husbands who do housework get less sex because their wives don't respect them?

[MatureDJ]

I was reading this article

http://healthland.time.com/2013/01/...ousehold-chores-miss-out-on-sex/?iid=obinsite

and I got thinking - perhaps the reason why husbands who do housework get less sex is because the type of husband who has not properly framed his place in the marriage as being the alpha is the type of husband that a wife is just not going to be as interested in sexing him. This seems to me to be similar to the situation of the good dad getting the "opportunity" to "man up" and a be a good provider and protector - while the cad only gets the opportunity to spread his semen.

 

[GotED?]

I think it depends on the personality of the man.

I am personally very clean, obsessively compulsively so. I haven't met a woman who is on my level.

As a result, I end up cleaning up more because I can't stand it. LOL

But in the end, I kick them to the curb anyways after demerits are issued for violations of the man's frame.

I think it all depends on the entire picture, not just about one thing - such as housekeeping.

Exodus

 

[Who Dares Win]

There's a difference between doing the houseworks cause you like your house in a certain way and do them because its her wearing the trousers.

I believe in the second case its not that those guys dont get sex because the wife is turned off from them being the submissive one, its very likely that they were betas to begin with and them doing the houseworks is one of the many "punishments" a woman inflict to her man everytime he reminds her that she didnt manage to score a top carder and had to settle with him.

The way women release frustration on their men for matters which are entirely theirs is astonishing.

 

[zenaddict]

women who don`t give a fvck about marriage and their traditional role as a woman, go out and party instead of washing the dishes, so when the guy comes home it comes to the conclusion that he has to cook for himself and wash the dishes

these women don`t give a fvck about their husbands from the first place they just got married so some beta faggot will take care of them, while at the same time they won`t be cast out by her girlfriends who also got married under similar pretenses

as the saying goes "I totally love my husband, but respect him, don`t be kidding me"

 

[TheLadiesMan]

Eh I got a 9year old son who - had it not been for me of course - who is clean, cool and courteous. Had I not taught him how to pick up after himself he would only be cool & courteous.

btw I get sex when I want cuz I do my part. Whether that be throwing her around on the sheets or cooking dinner. real talk. we do live in a big ass house tho.

 

[FinalWay]

I keep a tight ship myself...not ocd or anything but always clean. If the guy was smart he would call her out on all the work he did when she didn't do any...

 

[glass half full]

you know that is a two sided fate for me. My last girl used to keep a clean place when I met her. But after marriage, and finding out I would help with housework (her ex would do none of it), I got to do it all, while she came home and sat. I'm not sure if it was a girl getting back at men, or she just decided to make me low key, but she did devalue me to her friends, however that part took a few years though.
From now on, that will NEVER happen again. It just won't. And I did call her out on it, many times. She just stayed silent. Did not matter.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Choreplay

Ah, one more feminine social convention put to rest by the same author who contradicted herself 5 years earlier. The more guys buy into the Feminine Imperative's game the long you'll be chasing your tails.

 

[Married Buried]

I don't get less play for helping out with chores. The wife will still suck my d!ck on command.

 

[glass half full]

Just wait 3 or 4 years!

 

[Married Buried]

Just wait 3 or 4 years!

It's already been 2 years.. I don't think she is a changin'.. I think I made a good choice with this one (foreign woman)

 

[zekko]

It's already been 2 years.. I don't think she is a changin'.. I think I made a good choice with this one (foreign woman)

I don't have any comment about your choice of wife, or about bl0wjobs for that metter. But two years is nothing, barely a blip on the marital calendar. You're both in the "newlywed glow" stage - or should be.

 

[Married Buried]

I don't have any comment about your choice of wife, or about bl0wjobs for that metter. But two years is nothing, barely a blip on the marital calendar. You're both in the "newlywed glow" stage - or should be.

That's true.. she could leave in a few years and use me for my huge 40k/year paycheck. I trust my gut on this one and my family agrees she is a great woman.

I am not worried.

 

[Buddha_Mind]

Clean house clean mind. Find me a girl who wants to live in a sh1thole. Just don't walk around wearing a flower-apron!

 

[ive]

Do husbands who do male work - like fixing the roof, fishing or hunting get laid more? Maybe there should be some USA government sponsored research to investigate the correlation between *******s and the typical "male" duties.

 

[twentee]

My Filipina helps me at nearly everything I ask, so of COURSE I help her at whatever she asks. However, there WOULD be limits, if it got stupid.

 

[Down Low]

It's pretty simple to vivisect this sort of relationship issue when you keep in mind the common three mental damages of modern women. In this case, it's abuse.

Everybody knows that the house is the woman's domain, and housework is women's work. It's sheer abuse to suggest that a man should do distaffry. The poor bastard doesn't know why he's being maltreated. He might have stupidly done a little housework here and there due to feminist indoctrination -- and hated himself for it -- but he became a houseboy by trying to [cue Neville Chamberlain] appease the abuser.