"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do High School Relationships get better or worse during the summer?

girlsarecrazy

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I'm dating a girl from my high school. It's impossible for me not to see this girl at least 4-5 times a day between classes, sharing rides to school, at launch, etc.

Summer is coming up and I know a lot of girls like to be single during the summer so they can go worry free, party and have fun.

Me on the otherhand, would love to keep this girl throughout the summer for a steady flow of fun :)

Has anybody experienced a relationship that started when schools in session and then led into long summer? Did it last through the summer? Was the relationship better when school is in session or was the summer the time of your life with your girl?

Do tell me your experiences.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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comic_relief

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it just depends on the girl.

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j8snx1

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I can't give you a full experience explanation just yet since me and my girl just got together a month and a half ago, so once we enter summer you can hit me up through DJ discussion and i can give you my 2 cents.

HOWEVER, to answer your question unlike the guy before me, I'd suggest you do activities that are both exciting and intimate. For example, go to the beach, swim/surf/boogieboard/etc with her, make out along the beach, do her at the beach, etc etc. Haha.

You have PLENTY of more time and free days so curfews shouldn't really be too big of an issue for you during summer. I say get creative and romantic and make sparks fly.

I can't wait until summer myself. :)
 

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I understand that I will have plenty of more free time but I come to think that girls are ones to NOT enjoy being tied down during a summer of fun.

I've heard many of stories about girls breaking up with their boyfriends because they want to be free during the summer.

Anyone with experience on this topic care to share your story?
 

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It depends on a lot of things!!! It is your life and you control it, it is hers life and she controls it. She might leave somewhere far for The summer, she might get a job and have no time for dating. It depends on the age too, if she is 18 and older than she might be bysu always, taking care of her life, planning for the future, If she is a 17 or under she might still be a girl you should keep and have fun with, couse trust me, she really doesnt give a shyt about her life just yet.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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depends on the girl really. a girl with a wild side/partier is going to want to be single during the summer.
a girl who is a relationship-style, more prudish or doesn't enjoy partying, wont think of summer as a chance to go get buck-naked n fvck random dudes. It'll hold with them.
But everyone is tempted by summer-hookups. jsut gotta keep her on her leash.

personally I'd rather be single during the summer. vacation hookups+no guilt=good.
 

girlsarecrazy

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She's 17. Only a Junior. She's wild and crazy but she hasn't done anything more than just kissing with a guy unless they are in a relationship. Basically she's never done one night stands or random sex flings. Right now we are getting less serious with our relationship, but having lots of fun together. For example. We don't sit and talk on the phone all day and night long. We just focus on dates and sex.
 

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^^ dates and SEX!! What can A guy want more!!!! I mean SEX, its good mate, you are on the right track, you are being gifted, dont wear tight pants!! You need all the sperm you can get :D
 
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