"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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do guys that wear glasses in college get the hot girls?

cguy2004

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college is mostly about how you look, so i was wearing if you look nerdy with glasses, can you still get the hb 8+? do any of you guys have any experiences with this? i look better with glasses, but i feel that no one wants to hook up with a nerd in college. true or not?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Radharc

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Go to the gymn, get some piercings and tatoos, nobody will think you are a nerd because of some glasses.

And yes you can get the hb8. Most of this is inside your mind. If you really think that using glasses or not is a deal breaker then you need to do some inner work.
 

joe henny

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hb8 oh jesus christ that sounds so nerdy. No one wants to hook up with a guy so worried about wearing glasses because he needs him that he post the question on an internet forum. They want a confident man, a man who doesnt giv a fvck bout wearing glasses because he knows his value as a man.
 

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be the best version of yourself. you need glasses, wear them. trust me dude if a girl won't f u when you're wearing glasses she's not gonna strip magically when you take your glasses off.

you're not f-ing clark f-ing kent, k keep dreaming dude.

work out, dress well, be sociable, become well spoken, get a goddamn education, girls attracted to that will come and you will get high quality girls.

if you just wanna bang sorority hors and random slvts are parties yea get lasik or contacts, drink lots of beer and burn away your education years.

your choice
 

joe henny

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Desert Fox said:
be the best version of yourself. you need glasses, wear them. trust me dude if a girl won't f u when you're wearing glasses she's not gonna strip magically when you take your glasses off.

you're not f-ing clark f-ing kent, k keep dreaming dude.

work out, dress well, be sociable, become well spoken, get a goddamn education, girls attracted to that will come and you will get high quality girls.

if you just wanna bang sorority hors and random slvts are parties yea get lasik or contacts, drink lots of beer and burn away your education years.

your choice
I agree 100 percent your too focused on women. Focus on the money and the b!tches will come. I realized not to long ago after fvcking some fine hoe I thought "Damn, I'm fvcking alot of hoes, but in 10 years what will I have to show for it besides some stories? I need to get my priorities straight".
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alle_Gory

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cguy2004 said:
i look better with glasses, but i feel that no one wants to hook up with a nerd in college. true or not?
What do glasses have to do with being a nerd? If you look like a dweeb then lose some of that baby fat, dress a little better and wear a different style of glasses.

It's not "the glasses" that make you look like a nerd. It's nerdy glasses and other nerdy stuff that make you look like a nerd.
 
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