Do girls want fun all the time?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Master Don Juan

Jun 18, 2020

I guess in general it should not be too different than socialising with other guys. If both are introvert than it's better and if both are extravert it's also better. A mixture of both might have a lower chance.

It it feels like an uphill battle I don't think it's really worth it unless your a competitive guy. It's too exhausting.

Ideally you don't want her to be another job for you. If you are hunting for experience you can test it.

I don't think an introvert girl cares much about fun. If she can talk about the book she read she might find it more exciting.

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.