Do girls send welcome signals and reject you when you approch them ?

[evan12]

A lot of times when I see some women showing like they are in some how interested I dont approch them because I think may be they just did that for attention ?
what is the ratio real (interest / attention looking ) in case a girl look interested like playing in her hair or direct her body toward you , etc from signals

 

[BowTie]

I don't think it's quantifiable. Besides, most guys don't approach women even when receiving IOIs, especially in the daytime. But you will miss all the shots that you never take.

 

[Zerro]

Hair playing just means that she's nervous or anxious, I've seen chicks who for all purposes hated me still do it when in my presence. My current woman very rarely plays with her hair and never did it until several months into our relationship.

 

[Jitterbug]

Usually done by unavailable women who just want to test if they've still got it.

 

[foreverAFC]

i get this a lot at work, women will give me an smile or an intense look, and then they will make sure to pretend i dont exist every time they see me after that. it happens so much so that ive learned to just ignore women and tune them out, regardless of how hot they may be, i just dont bother responding to any IOIs cause i know most of them are fake.

 

[rascal99v]

you should approach her if she shows interest. you have nothing to lose

 

[Jitterbug]

Addressed by this guy: http://captaincapitalism.blogspot.ca/2012/12/how-women-deny-women-market-price.html

Which is why I never wait for signals. If I want to approach, I just do.

 

[VladPatton]

Yeah, they'll do that, many are attention whóres. Either way, real or not, you gotta try your luck and find out.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Yes, they do.

Years ago I was walking down the street in my old neighborhood and noticed a young woman in a bikini top and shorts and she smiled, waved, and said hello to me. I was thinking to myself "that's some strong IOI's right there." Nope, as I approached she did a back turn and started talking on her cell phone. As I walked away I heard her and her friend laughing at me.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Go to them and ask a neutral question to gauge the level of their interest:

"hey do you know what time is it"? then pay attention to the voice tone, facial expression and if the answer is given in a way to fuel a possible conversation.

interested girl:
"hey what time is it?"

"its 6pm, how comes you ask your girl is late (smile)?



uninterested girl:
"hey what time is it"?

"its 6.20" (look away or pay more attention to the bag/clock than you)


Ok I made it really simple here, but you got the message, this way you gauge their interest while not giving them any open attention nor being vulnerable to rejection or boosting their ego.

If in doubt you can make a further attempt after the answer "oh damn Ill be late again" then see if she asks why/how or she simply close it.

 

[nismo-4]

IOI's really aren't that reliable.

The only thing that can help you is making a move. That way you'll find out if she's interested in you or is an attention wh0re.

Case closed.