"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Do girls really like sweet guys or am I hopeless?

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addymark

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Recently, I have noticed that I hopelessly fall in love. I can never tell when or if a girl likes me. This is really hard.I found a girl who is very sweet to me. She tells me that I am the sweetest guy she has ever met and that she loves me. She also has a boyfriend. She talks to him about me and things like that.I really do think I like her.What do you think I should do?
Do girls really like sweet guys or am I hopeless?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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S. Pryor

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Out of your options: hopeless. But you don't always have to be this way. If she says you're sweet or thinks it then she doesn't really have attraction for you. You say she tells her boyfriend about you but that really means she doesn't see you as a contender. On her boyfriends end I would check her if she brings your name (or any other guy) up a little too frequently. You've got to be a little bolder in your game as well. Don't be out of the loop with how a girl feels about you. You have to know man.
 

WhitePimp

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Sweet usually translates to "feminine, non-threatening, supplicatingly nice" etc. You get the idea. She probably doesn't see you in any way shape or form as a sexual object, otherwise she'd call you "cute, hot, etc".
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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horaholic

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You guys dont like the "how to bet your ex-BOYFRIEND back' link in its signature?
 
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