"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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do girls miss guys?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Canadian Catnip

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Two examples of girls not missing me and missing me.

Girl 1. Haven't seen her in a year. We meet, not even a hi.

Girl 2. Same thing, she was away for a year. We meet, she is on the phone. She sees me from across the room and runs over to me yelling my name "CATNIP", Pauses and speaks into the phone, "Mom, I'll have to call you right back". Hangs up on her mother and then grabs me and gives me the biggest bear hug she can saying "I missed you so much catnip".

If you are getting responses from all girls like I got from girl 1 then it tells me you are doing something wrong.
 

bigjohnson

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I just don't get why you'd miss a chick for long. It's like feeling remorse because the hamburger you had for lunch isn't a meaningful part of your life anymore.
 

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Any emotion guys feel, girls feel it 10 times more powerfully. In general, guys tend to approach their feelings logically, so typically get over / resolve them a lot faster
 

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Alphamale1821 said:
haha the topics around here never seem to amaze me. Some of you guys really are lost.:confused: Seriosuly instead of coming here asking questions about what u should do simply get real authentic confidence and live your life to the fullest. Life isn't a scripted event, it's your life. Live, laugh, love and be confident in yourself. The rest just comes natural. Yet so many fools will never realize this.:kick:
AMEN brotha! Best advice in this thread. Women are like buses, ya miss one, hop on the next one. If you want to talk about "love" and "feelings" without being completely pathetic and needy, then become a songwriter.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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bigjohnson

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I'm not saying there's no such thing as an LTR but once it's over it's done and you should enjoy the memories and MOVE THE HECK ON.
 
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