Do girls lose interest after kiss close?

[LittleBigOne]

Do girls lose interest after a kiss close? Last kiss close was with a girl from abroad. I was at her place for a weekend. The kiss was on the final evening. However the next day she was holding back when i went in for another kiss, telling me it was not a good idea. We were pretty challenging to eachother that weekend but that holding back thing felt a bit weird. Contact afterwards is still good by the way. Get replays very quickly by mail and txt messages which i don't sent too often.

 

[The Deacon]

It sounds like you're forcing the kisses and she's picking up a desperate vibe. Play it cool, act aloof, and your interactions won't feel so awkward.

 

[DonJuan11]

Do girls lose interest after a kiss close? Last kiss close was with a girl from abroad. I was at her place for a weekend. The kiss was on the final evening. However the next day she was holding back when i went in for another kiss, telling me it was not a good idea.

Maybe you didn't make her knees weak when you kissed her.
Maybe she wanted to take it slow
Maybe she wasn't horny enough to kiss you two days in a row
Maybe your breath smelled bad when you kissed the first time
Maybe you used too much tongue
Maybe she has a boyfriend abroad
Maybe she doesn't kiss again unless she is married

Turn down the ego a bit and have fun!

 

[WC2]

You went in for the kiss and landed it. You're doing fine. Why do you feel that you need to move on her again so quick? You already showed that you had the balls to go for it, now just sit back and relax. Unless she gives you a sign or makes a move, stop making moves on her. She's probably had a lot of thinking to do since you initially did it and she doesn't want to be rushed into it the next day.

 

[JDA70]

another kiss, telling me it was not a good idea

That's a red flag dude right there
and I personaly would have called her on it...

saying, " I just kissed you as you did me and now
I went to kiss you again and you say it's not a good idea?"

"Why did you say that?"

Don't sit there and play ****ing mind games with her.

Make her spell it out for you.

Then don't msg her, act aloof or whatever you want to do.

 

[Reyaj]

lol Read my approach journal dude.. this has happend to me so much. I've had a lot of girls in past tell me I'm a good kisser too.... this game really boggles your mind sometimes!

 

[WC2]

That's a red flag dude right there
and I personaly would have called her on it...

saying, " I just kissed you as you did me and now
I went to kiss you again and you say it's not a good idea?"

"Why did you say that?"

Don't sit there and play ****ing mind games with her.

Make her spell it out for you.

Then don't msg her, act aloof or whatever you want to do.

Since when did asking a women "why?" get us anywhere? Women will never tell you what they are thinking, first of all. Second of all, asking her why is just going to make her want it less. Are you desperate? Do you really think the result of you asking why will be her explaining it logically and then making out with you? I didn't think so.

If a girl shys away when you make a move on her, first of all put a little more pressure on her and see if she just wants to be pushed a little farther. If she wants nothing to do with it after that, leave it alone. What are you going to do, get mad at her? Please, we are DJs not aspiring wife beaters who get mad just because a woman won't make out with you. We have plenty of other things to worry about.