"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do girls look for their fathers?

Jon55

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I've heard before that, and without even consciously realizing, a girl will often look for a man similar to her father. Is this true? If so, why?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Juan and only

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I'd say it is. I'm very much like my current girlfriend's father.

As to why, I'm not so sure...
 

Interceptor

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Yes,

They are.

They won't admit it to you.
But you shoudl naturally assume so.
If you look at your relationship with your woman, of any age, from THIS Perspective.....
You will have a more successful realtionship.
 

Hullothere

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now heres an interesting question. What if the girl has daddy issues with a ****ty dad? I think that kinda fuks them up in the head
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BlackJackal

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I believe so. Even more so if the father was absent, which is why some woman end up with men who aren't good for them.
 

Jon55

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Well it's just that looking back at my past gf's, I've noticed I was somewhat their fathers (personality-wise).
 

Broham

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My girlfriend has told me numerous times that she wants to marry a man just like her dad. She also has told me I am a lot like him and actually encourages behavior similar to his- i.e. smoking cigars. Its very scary actually.
 

KnockoutJM

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I read that most girls with good relationships with their fathers seek men who look, or act like their fathers.. because they feel naturally comfortable with them.
 

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my fiances father is 5 7 I am 5'6" we are both democratic voters...we are a lot alike except im athiest and hes religious..but personalities are similiar
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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