"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do girls look for their fathers?

Jon55

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I've heard before that, and without even consciously realizing, a girl will often look for a man similar to her father. Is this true? If so, why?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Juan and only

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I'd say it is. I'm very much like my current girlfriend's father.

As to why, I'm not so sure...
 

Interceptor

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Yes,

They are.

They won't admit it to you.
But you shoudl naturally assume so.
If you look at your relationship with your woman, of any age, from THIS Perspective.....
You will have a more successful realtionship.
 

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now heres an interesting question. What if the girl has daddy issues with a ****ty dad? I think that kinda fuks them up in the head
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BlackJackal

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I believe so. Even more so if the father was absent, which is why some woman end up with men who aren't good for them.
 

Jon55

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Well it's just that looking back at my past gf's, I've noticed I was somewhat their fathers (personality-wise).
 

Broham

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My girlfriend has told me numerous times that she wants to marry a man just like her dad. She also has told me I am a lot like him and actually encourages behavior similar to his- i.e. smoking cigars. Its very scary actually.
 

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I read that most girls with good relationships with their fathers seek men who look, or act like their fathers.. because they feel naturally comfortable with them.
 

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my fiances father is 5 7 I am 5'6" we are both democratic voters...we are a lot alike except im athiest and hes religious..but personalities are similiar
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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