"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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do girls like cheesy stuff?

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So I was talking to my gf the other day and I was busting the C&F and somehow we started talking about her being alergic to lactose and then she asked what I was alergic to but I dont bealive I'm alergic to anything so I answered no. But she kept insisting and telling me to think about it and I said:

"I'm alergic to you" and laughed

her- "Ahh! you're mean!"

me- laughed and then said "Even though I'm alergic to you I still force myself to see you because I like you that much"

and she went "awwwwwwwww" and I laughed cause that was so cheesy and I thougth she was gonna say something like "thats so cheesy" but she didnt. Then later on she told me that even though lines like that are cheesy girls still like them and fall for them when they arent used TOO much.

And another incident I was at my house waiting for the mom to pick her up and she was taking long and she didnt want to leave yet so she was trying to think of excuses and i said "tell her you got lost in my eyes and cant find your way back" and i got the same reaction.

so....do girls really like cheesy stuff?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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the second one about the eyes wasnt too bad...... but please dont ever say again "...............bc i like you so much" dont use cheesy lines, dont believe everything that girls tell you so much man.
 

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I agree with undesputable...on the surface it may seem that its working but it's really not. One time I noticed it was on the show "Wanna Come In". The "stud" was telling his chump but to just keep saying cheesy things like that and complimenting non stop. (some stud) It seemed like it was going GREAT for this guy. I thought for sure he was gonna get invited in, but I still had some doubt because you should never compliment/be cheesy that much. So in the end, he didn't get in. On the surface it may seem like it's working...but it might not.
 

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its not like i use it very often....with my current gf i have only said 2 cheesy things at most for the 3 months we've been together
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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im crackin lesbian jokes to this girl i talk to on the phone all the time and she is like"your so mean to me" and i just say "i aint be lovin them hoes" and keep going with the conversation
 

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c'mon guys... i could say the first line is *a bit* cheesy, if she wasn't his girlfriend... but they have been together for 3 months, i can't get what's the matter with saying that you "like her so much"... i constantly play with my girlfriend saying stuff like

"i love you", "no i love you much more than you do", "no, it's me that loves you more"

and she loves it... i can't get what's the matter with that...


the second line sounds more ****y/funny than cheesy, even with some lady who's not your girlfriend (unless you say it seriously, but i can't imagine somebody really meaning that...)
 

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bob: I thought it was quite funny, both lines(the first moreso).

As long as you don't do this consistently, I think it's very funny. LOL! Nice job!
 

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Neither are horrible, the first was better though, sounds like something i'd say. But you had to fvck it up and say "b/c i like you so much".... dude...lesson time, DONT. But overall i would just say, keep it up.

Oh ya, try this one if you get the chance:

If she is telling you something that is obvious BS, start acting like your sneezing uncontrolably, then, when she asks if your all right or what happened, say, "Oh, it was nothing, im just allergic to bullshyt, that's all." She'll get that you don't buy it, and she'll laugh about it.
 

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That won't work- it's stolen straight from I, Robot. It was even in the commercials. If you're gonna steal something, at least make it obscure enough where you don't get caught.

The second line was actually very good- ****y and funny. As long as you delivered it the way I'm envisioning.

The first one... Avoid that from now on.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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