"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do girls just prefer uglier guys

Ringleader41

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Ive noticed in my fraternity and college that I see uglier guys with gfs and hooking up with girls while the better looking guys do not. Im good looking and muscular and have the hardest time trying to get a woman's attention while guys less looking than me dont. No they are not puas or alpha because I know these people and dont see anything. If they have game than im excluding them because its understandle but I know for a fact they dont.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Being fit and muscular is great for your health and health and self esteem, but never think that your looks alone will attract women. When you say you have the hardest time atracting women, are you talking to them, joking with them, flirting with them, or just relying on your looks?
 

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ChargingRhino said:
Being fit and muscular is great for your health and health and self esteem, but never think that your looks alone will attract women. When you say you have the hardest time atracting women, are you talking to them, joking with them, flirting with them, or just relying on your looks?
idk they like me when they first meet me, but her attraction to me fades away as time progresses
 

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Well, I think you would have to post specific examples for people to comment, but from just the information you're giving, you're attracting them (probably from your looks), but you're either doing or not doing something to keep them interested.

Are you boring them?

Are you turning AFC?

I mean, I don't know. You would need to post specific examples.
 

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Yes its a new trend, we agreed on an other topic that being a hot guy doesnt work anymore and having a head full of long hair is a turn off for most of the girls.

There was a guy who was used to receive lot of female attention after he came back from the army where he shaved his head, at first the girls were into him cause they tought he was bald and shaved while now that he has a full head they kinda ignore him...being him fit and ripped doesnt help either.

Now talking about height, if you are 6 feet or taller there is not si much you can do about it but if you are ripped and muscular with the right diet you can improve, just eat 5gr of simple sugars for any pounf of your body weight and keep proteins low and possibly far from bed time.

Now if despite your new way you still think that top model hair cut is a turn off you can get a razor and shave your inner head as if you are getting bald.

As we know it all a matter of look but if you aim at hb9-10 you're gonna need a tight game as well, what you want is behave like every other guy(to make sure she doesnt think you're different) but with more intensity.

If the other guys text her to know how she is you better text twice the times and go heavy with poetry and compliments, this way she will be turned on and accept your date.

At that point you show what a gentleman you are and bring her a present even before she did anything for you, what you wanna show is that you are totally in love for her and that you have no other girls around (girls hate a guy with options).

Most of all,cannot repeat it enough never go for the kiss without asking first and not earlier than a month, well then rest will come and as soon as possible marry her so the law will protect you.

If you have other intelligent questions or idea please share.

--/trolling mode off--
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ScottMustaine said:
I know few girls who reject guys who aren't bald.
And you can take them out with a conventional vehicle or you have to rent a track with overpressurized wheels and overload rate?
 

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No girls like confidence....if you're a good looking guy with confidence the world is yours. If you're A good looking dude who stands in corner of the bar staring at all the girls while not saying anything, better look next time (although even on an off night i've hooked up with girls just because they opened me and said i was hot) I am sick of everyone saying looks don't matter because they do so go to the gym get a tan and lose the ****ing nerd glasses!
 

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(Have you ever seen a great looking guy, I mean a guy that you know, as a guy, chick find him hot, yet he's with a mediocre babe? Very rarely do you see a great looking guy and a great looking babe together. It happens but it's rare.)

I think good looks in a guy can be a "lure", just like a guy with money is a 'lure", but in the end, if the good looking guy has no "game', it's not going to work.

A mediocre (or even ugly) guy with "game"will outproduce a clueless, gameless good looking guy anyday.
 

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I've also found that it helps to be unemployed. If you're not working, it gives you a lot more free time to call a girl on an hourly basis, which will drive her wild. Another plus: get in touch with your feminine side; women love other women, so they'll naturally be drawn to you if you remind them of their friends. Last but not least, always do whatever she tells you to do. The fastest way to a woman's heart is with the words, "Yes, dear."
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Uberguy said:
I've also found that it helps to be unemployed. If you're not working, it gives you a lot more free time to call a girl on an hourly basis, which will drive her wild. Another plus: get in touch with your feminine side; women love other women, so they'll naturally be drawn to you if you remind them of their friends. Last but not least, always do whatever she tells you to do. The fastest way to a woman's heart is with the words, "Yes, dear."

Lol'd
 

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I guess its my attitude. I have no problem getting ONS but i cant get them to quite stay aftwerwards. I try not to be clingy. I dont text them a lot and im not clingy.
 

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ScottMustaine said:
I got hair. So...
So let me be sure that I got it, you made a move on a girl and she rejected telling you she only likes bald men?
 

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ScottMustaine said:
You didn't get it. I wasn't attracted to her. She's just a friend of mine. And I know few of my guy friends tried to hook up with her. But she rejected them. One of the 'features' she likes is 'bald' look. She's pretty much obsessed with it.

Tons of pictures with bald guys she likes...
Dont get me wrong, your contribution to the thread has been enriching but using a singular case to prove a point is no different than what some fatties does when her doctor tells her to stop eating junk food.

"My friend brenda eats mc donald twice a day and she is skinny so what you say about junk food making people fat is wrong".

There are also few girls who go for sick men cause they feel complete by playing the nurse, but we can easily say women want healthy men.
 

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Uglier guys have a much harder time hooking up with women. They have been disadvantaged in looks, so they know how to talk/be funny/have fun dates where good looking guys lack. Read PUA books+doc loves book

Ringleader41 said:
I guess its my attitude. I have no problem getting ONS but i cant get them to quite stay aftwerwards. I try not to be clingy. I dont text them a lot and im not clingy.
I lose respect for girls I have ONS with. They lack the self control to say no, and is a turn off for a relationship. I bet they feel the same way toward you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ringleader41 said:
I guess its my attitude. I have no problem getting ONS but i cant get them to quite stay aftwerwards. I try not to be clingy. I dont text them a lot and im not clingy.
Try to slow things down a bit, don't f*ck em so fast
 
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