Unless you know what you're doing, and you obviously don't you can ask her what exactly she didn't like about the relationship. If you do this, you can't be friends since you'll feel uncomfortable around her for obvious reasons. On the other hand you can chill together and be friends or whatever.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
do girls ever think were too good for them
- Thread starter lebon
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The last girl that said I "deserve someone better" told me this right before she left me for another guy...that was just my experience, but it seems like she was looking for an out - does she only date ugly guys or something? 
Austin Allegro
Master Don Juan
'she...thought I would always be looking for something better'.
I think this is the key line.
We all now 'you're too good for me' is a classic female dumping line, we've all heard it a thousand times before.
The conversation overheard on the bus, however, puts a slightly different slant on it. It's possible that:
a. the girls on the bus DID recognise you and decided to play along
b. the ex DID say this, but didn't mean it and was just trying to feed a consistent line of bs to her friends
c. She did say it, but when she said 'she thought I would always be looking for something better' she REALLY meant 'he is too confident and will not let me control him. I will not be able to test him or stay on my pedestal'.
d. She really did mean it and has very low self esteem.
I'd say b or d is the most likely answer, either way you don't want anything more to do with this woman as you have been 'nexted' already!
I think this is the key line.
We all now 'you're too good for me' is a classic female dumping line, we've all heard it a thousand times before.
The conversation overheard on the bus, however, puts a slightly different slant on it. It's possible that:
a. the girls on the bus DID recognise you and decided to play along
b. the ex DID say this, but didn't mean it and was just trying to feed a consistent line of bs to her friends
c. She did say it, but when she said 'she thought I would always be looking for something better' she REALLY meant 'he is too confident and will not let me control him. I will not be able to test him or stay on my pedestal'.
d. She really did mean it and has very low self esteem.
I'd say b or d is the most likely answer, either way you don't want anything more to do with this woman as you have been 'nexted' already!
It's also possible that she lost her attraction for you, but can't pinpoint the reason. I.e. she knows you're good looking, talented, intelligent etc etc, but there's no "magic" there.
When my ex- finished with me her friends hounded her, told her she would be stupid to dump me, that she'd never find anyone as good (very flattering stuff which I heard from a lot of people). My ex- couldn't disagree, but the truth is, she just didn't feel the attraction. I think the reason was because I was acting so much like an AFC.
When my ex- finished with me her friends hounded her, told her she would be stupid to dump me, that she'd never find anyone as good (very flattering stuff which I heard from a lot of people). My ex- couldn't disagree, but the truth is, she just didn't feel the attraction. I think the reason was because I was acting so much like an AFC.
To answer the original question though, girls are just like us guys because they are humans. They are physically different, weaker and a little more emotional in general. Other than that, their thoughts are similar to ours, they get scared too, they get angry, they do the same **** we do. But they have been programmed differently by their parents and society to do things in a certain way.
If us guys think that some girl is too good for us, then you can bet that girls think the same about us. Now, if a girl thinks you're too good, she'll be afraid to approach you in the first place and will usually do it through friends or whatever so long as it's safe because girls don't handle rejections too well. We don't like rejections as well but we can handle them much better than most girls out there because we're strong.
If us guys think that some girl is too good for us, then you can bet that girls think the same about us. Now, if a girl thinks you're too good, she'll be afraid to approach you in the first place and will usually do it through friends or whatever so long as it's safe because girls don't handle rejections too well. We don't like rejections as well but we can handle them much better than most girls out there because we're strong.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Listen to these guys, they know what they are talking about.
I have had the same line thrown at me.
It means "i am NOT interested in you"
Thats the most direct translation, and store that in your head.
It also means through my interpretation "i am NOT interested in you, its just that you didn't really leave me any opening in our interactions to send you on your way, its just that i've made this excuse, because i dont know why exactly, maybe i was just waiting for you to stuff up or something, but i just dont like you. so this ties in nicely with the rest of our interactions, and um yeh, i dont like you"
Buddy, if a girl likes you, she will stick with you. If she doesn't she will look to leave.
Same thing happened with me.
Now, dont think about it. Just know it, and get on with your life.
Treat her like anyone else now. Forget about her, you cannot worry about the other team....you have to worry about your team.
You see? Its simple. Move on, and improve yourself. She rejected you. Now you just act as if it didn't bother you, and get going onto other people. Dont ignore her, treat her with less like while still being polite enough, because you obviously still do like her.
_____
My situation, the same thing happened to me. This girl still talks to me. 1 year+ onwards. But there is no like there and she has a bf. Doesnt stop her from getting the "oh my god, does Dig It, really like me still" kind of angle going with some of the things she says.
Buddy, just move on. Talk to her, like i do with this one, but dont go gah gah over her. Never go gah gah. She's a human being just like you, she aint no goddess.
Cos why did she make something up like that.
The fact that she said that to you, says to me you still have some improving to you. 1 year ago i said the same thing to myself. and its a continuing road.
I have had the same line thrown at me.
It means "i am NOT interested in you"
Thats the most direct translation, and store that in your head.
It also means through my interpretation "i am NOT interested in you, its just that you didn't really leave me any opening in our interactions to send you on your way, its just that i've made this excuse, because i dont know why exactly, maybe i was just waiting for you to stuff up or something, but i just dont like you. so this ties in nicely with the rest of our interactions, and um yeh, i dont like you"
Buddy, if a girl likes you, she will stick with you. If she doesn't she will look to leave.
Same thing happened with me.
Now, dont think about it. Just know it, and get on with your life.
Treat her like anyone else now. Forget about her, you cannot worry about the other team....you have to worry about your team.
You see? Its simple. Move on, and improve yourself. She rejected you. Now you just act as if it didn't bother you, and get going onto other people. Dont ignore her, treat her with less like while still being polite enough, because you obviously still do like her.
_____
My situation, the same thing happened to me. This girl still talks to me. 1 year+ onwards. But there is no like there and she has a bf. Doesnt stop her from getting the "oh my god, does Dig It, really like me still" kind of angle going with some of the things she says.
Buddy, just move on. Talk to her, like i do with this one, but dont go gah gah over her. Never go gah gah. She's a human being just like you, she aint no goddess.
Cos why did she make something up like that.
The fact that she said that to you, says to me you still have some improving to you. 1 year ago i said the same thing to myself. and its a continuing road.