naes420
Don Juan
liek the jeoulousy things and games like that to make someone jeoulous you know do they REALY play games liek that i mean i read it but i mean do they realy play games liek that
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
do girls actualy do these things..
- Thread starter naes420
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
nonchalant
Senior Don Juan
yes
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
If they didn't life would be so much easier, although if they didn't relationships would be boring.
You'll notice as you progress that some girls don't. You'll also notice your not attracted to those girls as they're no challenge.
You'll notice as you progress that some girls don't. You'll also notice your not attracted to those girls as they're no challenge.
Bingo. I know we're ****ed up like that, but that's what keeps us attracted. Otherwise we wonder what the other side looks like. We don't appreciate what we have until we don't have it anymore.Plec07 said:
naes420
Don Juan
do they realy tink that deaply in to thse things why...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.