Most girls these days are only as faithful as their options. Once someone she perceives as "better" comes along she will...And if she gets caught and it doesn't work out with the "better" man and or he's not what she thought he was she made a "mistake". Which you should consider a mistake for have wasted your time with her and move on right away.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Do Faithful Girls Exist Anymore?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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most men hate to face that reality they love to deny it and think that if they just do more for her she will never cheat..lol wrongamstrad said:
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in 95% of cases you will not know that she cheatedBumsniff said:
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That's the same for most people, including men, except me of course. I have ample opportunities to cheat on my partners at any given stage and have always abstained, although it was mightly tempting at the time.amstrad said:
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Complete nonsense. My friend has been dating a gorgeous woman for the past five years and she is one of the most down-to-earth, non-bratty women I have come across. The problem with people is that they complain about something and still go ahead and proceed with it. Men complain about sh*tty women and yet still pursue sh*tty women and it's the same for women who date sh*tty men. I have come to realise that sh*tty people attract sh*tty people.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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The answer is a resounding YES. But you won't find them in clubs & frat/house parties. So widen your search area.
Yes. I agree with all the yes votes here. I've been divorced twice. Just finalized my second one last week. While she was with me, she never cheated.
It's true that you're not likely to meet a woman who will be true to you while she's hanging out at bars and clubs, dressed like a slut, getting hammered, and grinding up against every swinging dick in the place. Kinda seems like common sense, right?
You'll meet the good ones where it would seem you would least expect it if you spend a lot of time in the meat markets looking for easy girls. But, logically enough, you tend to meet nice girls at school, at church, at work, etc. You'll even have a much better chance of getting to know them a bit and pre-qualifying before you waste any time.
Also, my ex was very hot, the hottest I'd ever dated. But, after that experience, I'm quite content with dating girls a step or two lower on the looks scale who have a lot of other qualifications.
One more thing: we as men need to also look inside ourselves as to why all these women cheat. Either they are all sluts created by our modern culture, we make poor choices, or something is really fucked up inside our own characters.
It's true that you're not likely to meet a woman who will be true to you while she's hanging out at bars and clubs, dressed like a slut, getting hammered, and grinding up against every swinging dick in the place. Kinda seems like common sense, right?
You'll meet the good ones where it would seem you would least expect it if you spend a lot of time in the meat markets looking for easy girls. But, logically enough, you tend to meet nice girls at school, at church, at work, etc. You'll even have a much better chance of getting to know them a bit and pre-qualifying before you waste any time.
Also, my ex was very hot, the hottest I'd ever dated. But, after that experience, I'm quite content with dating girls a step or two lower on the looks scale who have a lot of other qualifications.
One more thing: we as men need to also look inside ourselves as to why all these women cheat. Either they are all sluts created by our modern culture, we make poor choices, or something is really fucked up inside our own characters.
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The ugly fat outta shape ones? Sounds about right, but not all of them. There is a group of men who would happily bang them too.ScottMustaine said:
A faithful girl these days is a needle in a haystack. But they DO exist.
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I think if you're on top of your game it's easy for a woman to stay faithful to you. It's all about the mindset and level of power you convey to your women.
If your girl sees you as the dominant one in a relationship, the one with the most power in a relationship, and you're also on top of your game for courting a woman, then she holds you higher then other guys and puts this "ideal" around you.
Why would your girl think to cheat if she already thinks she's getting the best out there?
Granted there is always a better looking guy, a more muscular guy, a smoother talker, but when you convey confidence in all of these things, your girl will have difficulty in finding someone better and thus not to anything to lose you.
I think cheating is the fault of both parts of the relationship. The cheater is at fault for seeking satisfaction elsewhere instead of discussing the gap in the relationship while the one who is cheated is at fault for not noticing the gap as well as not keeping their partner interested in what is there.
So...yes faithful girls exist, but it's tough work to keep them faithful. I've caused a girl in a 2.5 year relationship to cheat multiple times because her boyfriend isn't capable of satisfying her fully. Nobody to blame but himself.
If your girl sees you as the dominant one in a relationship, the one with the most power in a relationship, and you're also on top of your game for courting a woman, then she holds you higher then other guys and puts this "ideal" around you.
Why would your girl think to cheat if she already thinks she's getting the best out there?
Granted there is always a better looking guy, a more muscular guy, a smoother talker, but when you convey confidence in all of these things, your girl will have difficulty in finding someone better and thus not to anything to lose you.
I think cheating is the fault of both parts of the relationship. The cheater is at fault for seeking satisfaction elsewhere instead of discussing the gap in the relationship while the one who is cheated is at fault for not noticing the gap as well as not keeping their partner interested in what is there.
So...yes faithful girls exist, but it's tough work to keep them faithful. I've caused a girl in a 2.5 year relationship to cheat multiple times because her boyfriend isn't capable of satisfying her fully. Nobody to blame but himself.