"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do faint light beards suit black men?

Tails

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Do faint beards look attractive on men? I see white guys like Colin Farrell and Bruce Willis (back in his old days) with it, suits him. However, there is a difference, because I am dark. Does it suit us black guys?

Something like this;

http://images.chron.com/content/news/photos/03/10/02/denzel.jpg

http://www.alicia-logic.com/capsimages/am_016DieselTate.jpg

the first picture would probably be what i'd look like every three days after shaving. i grow fast, and then it stays like that for a while. it doesn't go wild or anything. do you think it's a bad thing or is it cool to keep that faint beard look until it gets too hairy?

i also wear a silver chain (curb link chain) around my neck - and i have alot of similarities with that denzel fellow, whenever i look at him i feel like i'm looking at a mirror sometimes... very odd.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Julian

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thats denzel man, hes pure pimpishness and can probbaly pull off any look.

Post a pic, of yourself.
 

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IMO, it looks better on black guys than white guys because it doesn't contrast from the skin color as much. I think it'll look awesome!

BTW, im not white or black, so its a totally unbiased opinion.
 

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Originally posted by Mr.Hash wid da Stash
That depends tails, are you an aboriginal or african black?
lol. no i am not aboriginal. if i was, this computer would probably be stolen. anyway. if you say denzel can pull it off, than i guess i can. i am telling you now that i almost look like him. pretty much the same face. i just look younger, lol. i am a big time mix breed. african/american, spanish, portuguese, german, you name it!

also, is it attractive for the women?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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