"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do exes call back after Mr. JERK dumps them???

charolastra

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Has anyone received a call from an ex, a few months later, after Mr. JERK has dumped her???

If so, how did you all handled it?
Did anyone get a chance to redeem yourself and then dumped her???

charolastra
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I say it depends on the circumstances. There are instances when a girl should only have 1 chance, but there are I'm sure some cases where the breakup or split up or whatever you wanna call it was done so as a result of some drama that may or may not have cleared up since then. In such a case perhaps a 2nd chance is worth it.
 

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I was talking about getting even, not give ex a 2nd chance... She played me big time and would like to give her a little of her own medicine.
 
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