"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do exes call back after Mr. JERK dumps them???

charolastra

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Has anyone received a call from an ex, a few months later, after Mr. JERK has dumped her???

If so, how did you all handled it?
Did anyone get a chance to redeem yourself and then dumped her???

charolastra
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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I say it depends on the circumstances. There are instances when a girl should only have 1 chance, but there are I'm sure some cases where the breakup or split up or whatever you wanna call it was done so as a result of some drama that may or may not have cleared up since then. In such a case perhaps a 2nd chance is worth it.
 

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I was talking about getting even, not give ex a 2nd chance... She played me big time and would like to give her a little of her own medicine.
 
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