do cold approaches ever lead to anything

[KoalaKing]

I leave for like 3 months come back, and find the advice is getting more and more AFC.... keyboard jockey heaven.

Talkin' about "Only super hot guys can cold approach"

I doubt EVERY guy on here just happens to be super attractive. where does that leave the rest of y'all? Don't approach?

Its Game! that's it GAME! if you don't realize that from all these bible articles ur in the wrong website.

It is obviously going to be easier to cold approach hot babes who have revealed to you in a smile or any other type of flirtatious way that they are attracted to you when you first see them.

If hot babes have never seen or met you before then they can only really be attracted to you by what they see with their eyes.

When a hot babe who I have never seen or met before smiles, raises her eyebrows, flips her hair, or tells one of her friends that you are a hunk or a cute guy and you hear her say that, it makes it so much easier for you to confidently cold approach her, as you know that she is already positive about you.

It is much more difficult to cold approach a hot babe who isn't revealing any real levels of attraction or interest towards you.

My looks have been the least of my problems, at least half of the hot babes that I see and meet are attracted to my physical appearance.

My major hurdles were that my speech was very poor and I didn't have any academic qualifications until I was well into my 30's.

As soon as I began to re-train my voice and I began to speak alot more fluently deeper and confidently, I was enabled to use my 8 out of 10 good looks to draw the hottest babes towards me.

When I began to speak with confidence, I set about the restoring of my life, I went back to college and began to study and pass certificates and diplomas in the business field.

At last I had a carreer, money, good speech, as well as the powerful muscular body of which I had built up by my pushing weights at the gym, to go with my already God given pleasant facial features.

I would never say that guys who are not blessed with good looks can't be successful with hot babes, but these guys probably have to meet the girls first so that there personalities and charisma can shine through.

When you are fortunate enough to be a good looking guy, the body language of the hot babes will reveal to you that they are attracted to you before you even approach them for a conversation, which makes the initial cold approaching of them so much easier to do, because you know that she likes you before you have even approached her.

I hope that this has given you some more insight into what I was trying to get accross in my previous thread, happy sarging.

 

[DJ_in_making]

It is obviously going to be easier to cold approach hot babes who have revealed to you in a smile or any other type of flirtatious way that they are attracted to you when you first see them.

If hot babes have never seen or met you before then they can only really be attracted to you by what they see with their eyes.

When a hot babe who I have never seen or met before smiles, raises her eyebrows, flips her hair, or tells one of her friends that you are a hunk or a cute guy and you hear her say that, it makes it so much easier for you to confidently cold approach her, as you know that she is already positive about you.

It is much more difficult to cold approach a hot babe who isn't revealing any real levels of attraction or interest towards you.

My looks have been the least of my problems, at least half of the hot babes that I see and meet are attracted to my physical appearance.

My major hurdles were that my speech was very poor and I didn't have any academic qualifications until I was well into my 30's.

As soon as I began to re-train my voice and I began to speak alot more fluently deeper and confidently, I was enabled to use my 8 out of 10 good looks to draw the hottest babes towards me.

When I began to speak with confidence, I set about the restoring of my life, I went back to college and began to study and pass certificates and diplomas in the business field.

At last I had a carreer, money, good speech, as well as the powerful muscular body of which I had built up by my pushing weights at the gym, to go with my already God given pleasant facial features.

I would never say that guys who are not blessed with good looks can't be successful with hot babes, but these guys probably have to meet the girls first so that there personalities and charisma can shine through.

When you are fortunate enough to be a good looking guy, the body language of the hot babes will reveal to you that they are attracted to you before you even approach them for a conversation, which makes the initial cold approaching of them so much easier to do, because you know that she likes you before you have even approached her.

I hope that this has given you some more insight into what I was trying to get accross in my previous thread, happy sarging.

No, I agree. Not saying looks don't matter, but like you said, as soon as you started making your voice more attractive you got more success. Which goes to show other things help when it comes to a cold approach. I for one never had a girl flip her hair and all that stuff I see on commercials. Although I am decently attractive but the most I get is probably a stare, but that shouldn't stop me from approaching, cuz an interested girl may not show it or I may miss the IOI's b/c I suck @ reading them.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

Just wondering if anybody has any personal stories of cold approaches leading to a LTR or even just a hookup.

It's starting to seem to me that the only purpose a cold approach serves is to boost confidence and become more familar with talking to women ...

Read the link in my SIG. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=85985&highlight=self-mastery

Cold Approached have yielded: 18 hook ups and 2 girlfriends, and my game is FAR from flawless. I still have to kick myself in the sack to take action.


Some guys just don't have what it takes, and should try to develop a large circle of friends to provide their supply of women. Join all kinds of clubs and attempt to 'game' from there. I think that some guys will never develop the approach skills needed to chat up a stranger; they will forever overvalue a HB. Find a method that works for you.

Most guys need to reconcile all the negative things that keep them from confidently living the game. If your fat, ugly, broke, weak, or shy work on those things. Do whatever it takes for you to feel comfortable in your own skin.
Lift, Learn and Love the Game.

Good Luck:yes: